Hey there- whats done is done- how quickly you bounce back from this is what you need to focus on now. Sorry for the above lectures- this isn't the time for that- you are human- and in the history...
I can tell you as someone who was both practitioner and patient under this brilliant idea that I will never again fall for some administrative push to change nursing practice. 1) There are so many...
1sttime replied to wifeseekinghelp's topic in Nurses Recovery
I was your husband 4.5 years ago... I am a completely different person now- I didn't realize how sick I was. Do what you have to do to get through this- it will be very hard at first- eventually it...
The office of unemployment does not have the authority to force you to disclose personal health information. I went round and round with a gentleman on the phone who wanted to know how an RN could be...
It should be illegal to have evaluations where they have a treatment program- I have heard so many nightmare stories about Hazelden, and my own experience was outright threats that a persons...
If you are in a hostile work environment DO NOT RELY ON HR- HR is only there to protect the hospital- not you. Any meetings with them will not be documented- if its not documented it didn't happen,...
You graduated from nursing school and are now entering the profession on probation? I have not had a hair sample taken in 4 years- tests depend on the state, mine run $64-108. They generally have a...
1sttime replied to my own worst enemy's topic in Nurses Recovery
People can be impaired by many things: All of those times my manager did not care I was working with a migraine- impaired All of the nurses who are constantly distracted by their phones or Facebook-...
1sttime replied to ServantLeader's topic in Emergency
We must all have short term memory loss- somebody came up with the idea that a hospital should be like a hotel- patients became guests. Around this same time we were told "Pain is the 5th vital sign"...
1sttime replied to Malenurseprospect's topic in Nurses Recovery
That makes a rough start to nursing- I don't know if I would be able to make it through if I didn't have years of nursing experience to get me into a job to meet the monitored practice requirements....
A relapse or a slip up is a part of recovery- I had a slip up after 2 years- horrific but I kept moving forward- I went back to counseling and tried to figure out what happened. I can't tell you what...
This is a hard question... when I was practicing impaired I thought I was ok to practice. After 1 year of sobriety I felt completely different about that, now at 4 years out I realize that each year...
For me it was about knowing that the cravings weren't in control, and then slowly finding something else that I enjoyed more in life.... Where are you, through withdrawals? 1 week
I asked this as well to my monitor- it can be a qualified health expense- if I would have done it correctly I would have set up an HSA and had money in there to pay for these things. I tried to...
Nothing will look good right now- you have to go through the steps to feel better Force yourself to take walks, eat right, and do self care... I spent way too much time going between the sofa and...
Yes, have a credit card for the drug screens- in my state they run $60-120 per test, in another state its $50 per test. Failure to pay is "non-compliance" I took money out of my 401k as a loan to get...
I made a switch to real estate- it does take a little money to get started, but the real estate boards don't seem to care about anything except real crimes and financial fraud. I did my training...
In my state you can work a non-nursing job. My old employer did keep me on for some time for FMLA and I was eligible for rehire, circumstances made it so that my entry into our states program took too...
I left nursing after 15 years- I continue in the RAMP program to keep my license valid and free from discipline. -What I have learned in my time away from nursing is that I can be successful in...
Protection of the public in certain easy to protect cases (i.e. us), there are a lot of practicing nurses and doctors who are violating their practice standards daily and rarely are they...
Read the contract- I did not disclose until I had the job offer- an interview is an opportunity to sell the positive attributes of yourself. When I was a hiring manager I had a nurse disclose her...
Anonymous is the key- who are they going to check with? What if you attend an online meeting? What if you do what I do which is go by the "big book" which says something about a meeting is when two...
Employee health, dialysis, telephone triage... I know of an RN who got a job in dialysis after having public discipline... When I was first looking for a job I would explain it if the position...
I would see if I could get a job at a health system that supports you- your foot could be in the door as a unit secretary or other supportive role. You might even just try with getting a CNA...