"So yeah, I claim it as my baby...i'm there to protect them from harm, to get them through the night alive, and to get them home in a few months. I spend hours more time each day, with these babies, than even their parents do"
You still dont get it..... now you have more rights that the parents themselves. It does not matter how much good intention you have. By being territorial only produces a barriers among health care professionals. But forget it. I dont expect you to see that either.