NightNerd

NightNerd MSN, RN

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  1. Time for White Nurses to Stand Up

    Agreed that this should not happen in any workplace. I can imagine that this abuse of power would be challenging to eradicate. Mostly when I witness my colleagues experiencing any sort of racial...
  2. I second this wholeheartedly. Please talk about these feelings with someone, and pursue a session with a mental health counselor if possible. Being a new nurse is extremely challenging and many of us...
  3. Too strong of a personality?

    If your manager, preceptor, etc. all give you positive feedback and this is coming primarily from coworkers, it most likely will have no bearing on your job, so that's good. Have they given you any...
  4. Working as a shy/socially anxious nurse

    The answer is both yes and no, in my experience - so helpful, I know! It still sucks when people get annoyed with you; it never feels good when a patient is upset about something you are or aren't...
  5. New protocol - No report from ER to floor...

    We get a written SBAR as a note in the computer. No official time limit before they can transfer the patient up, but it's usually at least half an hour. I actually like reading the SBAR; it's a good...
  6. Hazard Pay

    No hazard pay, and just learned no performance emails evals and raises for the fiscal year. Supposedly there I'd a small one-time recognition payment in the works for later this year, which I guess is...
  7. I'm so ashamed of myself

    Honestly, this is totally relatable - except for the huge increase in updates I need to give over the phone. Depending on the family, restricted visitors can be a lifesaver. That said, outside of the...
  8. What is your "favorite" procedure?

    Favorites are foleys, IVs (if I'mhaving a good day), maintaining NGT/PEG. I am starting to really dig wound care too! Least favorite are inserting NGT and trach care. I see trachs so infrequently that...
  9. Is it normal to feel this way?

    It's normal. Is the patient cognizant of her behavior or are there memory problems, etc.? That would affect how annoyed I would be. It can make you crazy, but sometimes people just can't help it....
  10. Nursing for Intimate care for men

    Agreed that this was unprofessional and rude. This is unfortunate, as my experience is that most providers wish to keep their patients comfortable. I would argue that more training, feedback, and...
  11. Nursing for Intimate care for men

    While I can empathize with the modesty thing, please remember that many women are treated by male OBGYN and other specialists who often need to conduct some awkward exams. It's not a given that we're...
  12. Non-medical friend avoiding me

    All of this, 100%. Especially when many communities and parts of the world are encouraging or even mandating temporary bans on big crowds, etc., it makes sense that people are being more cautious....
  13. Rude Family Member - Advice?

    Honestly, you can't blame yourself for being upset - that sounds wretched! Like, the nerve to act like that and then turn around and pat your shoulder and act like it's all okay? That's messed up. It...
  14. Calling in sick

    It sounds like your manager made her expectations pretty clear. I would go with her recommendation. If you want to confirm, you could also check with Employee Health. I wouldn't go to work
  15. New grad nurse, can’t stop thinking about work

    Lol, five years later and I still have work dreams sometimes. If you're like me and a little anxious, this might be something that happens time and again, BUT, it will get less frequent. You're new,...
  16. This was common practice on my former unit, so I rolled with it until we were told not to clock in that early. Nope, nope, nope. This nurse is not working for free. At the unit where I work now, we're...
  17. Do nurses make a difference?

    Yes!! Thinking of this career as a whole, it sometimes feels hard to think of it as a success, because so many outside factors affect how we do our jobs. But when you consider each individual shift...
  18. Are boundaries ok?

    Boundaries are the best! Don't feel obligated to pick up extra time unless you want
  19. Tired and burnt out from the abuse

    I've totally been there. Sometimes you do feel yourself losing patience and motivation, and it sucks! It's really sad to watch yourself change like this because of work-related stress. That's why it's...
  20. Tired and burnt out from the abuse

    Very much agree with Kooky Korky on this one. Not that I don't think this patient was out of line; it sounds like she was rather mean and she should have expressed her complaints differently. She...
  21. Just curious about others' experiences. Just had an occ health employment for a new job, and it was honestly one of the most, um, personal experiences I've ever had at work. They had me wear a gown...
  22. Is this weird? New employee occupational health.

    I guess I can understand them wanting to know if someone is on certain medications that could affect their job, or if there is a valid prescription for any controlled substance that shows up on a drug...
  23. Something Has to Change

    I work outside of the hospital currently, in research. The amount and kind of nursing experience you need varies through different kinds of research, but I know where I am they didn't need a lot at...
  24. How Do You Fit In 30mins Of Exercise In Your Work Day?

    I get my exercise outside of work, rather than trying to build it into my work day. Running and yoga are part of what I do to relieve anxiety, get outside, and spend time with my boyfriend or friends...
  25. Preceptor is SO BAD!

    Agree that two shifts is too soon to make a call about this. Your preceptor is not a mind-reader, so you probably just need to communicate some of this to her. No, you will probably not get to do...