50% of the men I've worked with have either been catty, incompetent, uncaring or rude which is probably a higher percentage of the women I've worked with. That doesn't mean men are prone to that...
fergus51 replied to ClaireMacl's topic in United Kingdom
Just a warning to some nurses here: only California has mandated nurse to patient ratios (and I certainly can't afford a house here!), many nurses leave the profession because of a lack of respect and...
fergus51 replied to ClaireMacl's topic in United Kingdom
It's unfortunate and you'd also need to get peds and OB training as well. A lot of newer UK grads have posted about all the trouble they've had doing this. I think it makes more sense to train nurses...
fergus51 replied to ClaireMacl's topic in United Kingdom
It's not about better or worse training, it's simply that the US and Canada require that nurses be trained as generalists. That means you must have a certain amount of medical-surgical, psych, peds...
I'm in a public hospital too. The difference is so obvious to many of us at work. 2 babies who are almost identical health wise will get different treatment based on who their parents are (are they...
Of course they will be women, because nursing is still something like 95% women. It's like saying 100% of the people I've seen pregnant are women. Well, yeah, but that doesn't mean all women are...
Maybe because we worked at opposite ends of the countries in different specialty areas? I dunno. I've seen first hand here how rich families are treated differently than poor families. It frustrates...
I don't think PC has anything to do with it because it is discussed over and over again by nurses. The PC police don't seem to say much about it. I didn't say the behaviors weren't there in some...
As a woman, I could not disagree more and think that's an outdated misogynistic attitude. I've worked in several different hospitals and worked in a female dominated workplace for almost 8 years...
I'm EXTREMELY pro-midwife, but I have to wonder about those statistics citing lower mortality in western european nations as being only because of midwives. We also have a lot of women in the US who...
That's a real shame. Being that weight is no reason to not breastfeed. I can understand them not having him breastfeed if he was respiratorily unstable, but after that we toss everybody on the breast....
I'm not retracting my 99%. I truly believe there are about 1% of people who are truly extreme. They either want everyone in birkenstocks squatting in a forest to deliver while chanting to the...
I guess it depends on the unit and the nurse. I've always founds nights scarier because of less backup from docs, less staff in general, higher patient ratios and sleep deprivation, but that may be...
Those nurses are no better than the bf "advocates" who use guilt and intimidation to get women to breastfeeding when they don't want to. Hopefully the women choosing to formula or breast feed are...
Yes I have a problem with docs giving out false info. In all fairness though, "Well I wouldn't recommend that" and "I don't know how you ladies do it" isn't false info, it's an indication of her birth...
OK. I actually think both types exist, but 99% of people are neither. Women who want the "natural" experience were always supported as much as possible and so were women who wanted epidurals where...
fergus51 replied to Tiny1Nisolet's topic in NICU, Neonatal
Any parent whose primary concern is their baby is my only real criteria. Them being polite/respectful is a plus. Fortunately most parents fit into that category. Unfortunately there is still a sizable...
I just give the op the benefit of the doubt, especially from her second post on this thread. I certainly agree that RNs, doulas and midwives can give out info on pregnancy. I do have problems with...
I don't think she's trying to "force someone to see it her way", I think she's just talking about giving truthful information to counteract outright lies. A patient who has been lied to by a nature...