I want to applaud you for not joining in on this pathetic behavior. I have had this experience as a patient and it is horrible and has stuck with me for a long time. When I was preg I had pre-eclampsia and gained more than 80lbs. 30Lbs were in the last month. I ended up having an emergency c-section and could have easily died. I felt horrible after as my body was so sick, it affected my kidneys and to top it off I was having bad anxiety because I could not be with my baby, so in short I was already feeling so low. 3 nurses began to change me to the bed in recovery and one nurse began to complain that I was too big and how do you let yourself get so fat and the other two joined in, my legs were paralyzed from the spinal block and I felt helpless. They went and got a fourth nurse and I began to cry and tell this new nurse I was sorry and she comfort me and said oh honey its not your faultand I am so thankful for her because it was not my fault and I did not deserve there ridicule. 3 years later the weight is gone but the pain is still so fresh. You are going to make a wonderful nurse.