Thanks for all the input, I appreciate the help , I will try some of the suggestions I have read. I agree that the resident should be able to use the commode when he wants as I myself would not want to sit and wait for to relieve my self. But he has been evaluated and has no physical problems that the doctors can see that would make him need to go so frequently also the majority of the time he doesnt do anything. He is very mean and demanding. We don't have a standing lift at my job as of yet.
Thanks again everyone!