I did not know about this anonymous complaint thing ... I agree one should be able to face their accuser, other wise you would be at a serious disadvantage in defending yourself against the accusation. If it where me, I would simply respond by saying "This my jilted ex-_______ " and I would imagine most would understand it is merely an attempt to smear your name. However, I am not a lawyer so do not take my advice as carved in stone. Henry