When my Dad was sick, and then when I was, I saw both sides of this conundrum, but both examples were exceptions. Despite my previous little rant, most of what I saw, and most of what I encounter at...
nursemike replied to jameshutch's topic in Men in Nursing
I've only been flatly refused by a patient twice--well, two and a half times. The "half" was the worst--the patient asked for a different nurse after I made a horrendous--but innocent--blunder that I...
Susie2310, I've had to give your post some thought, mainly because there's nothing in it with which I disagree. And yet, I still feel I was right, or at least partly right. So I've really had to...
Obviously (in hindsight) I wasn't dying. Except, by all logic, I was. I'm here because my surrogate and some of the nurses who cared for me pushed the docs to go beyond what was reasonable (and...
I once had a family member ask that their dying loved-one's Dobhoff be withdrawn. At my facility, this has to be done by an MD. So I paged the resident, who gave me my first (of many) experience with,...
BTW: Newbie nurses dream of marrying a doctor. Experienced nurses dream of marrying an aide. Really experienced nurses can trick doctors into acting as aides, once in
Getting back to work after medical leave has been a vivid reminder of my first year, with the substantial difference of knowing I've done this before. First year is a roller coaster ride, bearing in...
The various sides of "why bother" having been pretty well covered, may I say that the first time I witnessed a code, it was pretty interesting, but as a UAP (unlicensed assistive person) I was hardly...
nursemike replied to NurseMom2016's topic in General Nursing
Sometimes our patients are having the worst day of their lives. They're frightened, they're frustrated, and acting out may be the one way they have of feeling like they have some sort of control. As...
I don't believe it's acceptable for a nurse to intervene in a patient's care contrary to the will of the primary nurse, unless the primary nurse is abusing or neglecting that patient. If a superior...
At the end of my most recent shift, I needed help to get a patient off a bedside commode, but the aide didn't come because she was giving report. The nurse I was going to give report to came to help...
If I hadn't procrastinated about filling out advanced directives, I might not be writing this. (Might not, because a secret about DNR is that it depends a bit on how hard your family fusses about it)...
nursemike replied to fitfabfunnurse2b's topic in General Nursing
OP, as you said yourself, you are new to nursing. You also seem to feel sufficiently invested in the pursuit of a nursing career not to abandon it lightly. Makes sense to me. Some of the responses to...