p.s the fact that this person came to a message board online to ask how to 'deal' with this situation, further reinforces his/her inexperience in dealing with people, that's why we go to school to...
I will never understand the human lust for blood and the dark desire to 'punish' others -I am sure for a moment it feels REALLY good. Do most people live with NO conscience? do they feel any remorse...