I have never been asked to clean before. In fact when I worked at a facility I asked for a bottle of disinfectant and was told that I am not to touch cleaning products while I am on duty. They did not want the nurses messing with cleaning product and then passing meds. I think cleaning the dishes I use and cleaning up messes when I get gtube feed on the counter or something is something that should just be an unsaid duty for all nurses but laundry!? When their are 3 adults living in the house and only one has a job! I already bathe, dress, fix his bed,fix his hair, feed him, brush his teeth, change his diaper, play with him all day.....so on. She can't wash his clothes!? Seriously! Is there no end to the things you can have put on a care plan for a nurse that you get for free in the first place? Idk, it seems like this is a normal thing in home health and I shoud just get over it but it really burns my a** that I HAVE to do these things now I am a total neat freak anyway and I would have done this just because I can't stand a mess. I feel like this was a big up yours from the consumers mother. I feel like I said that doing housework isn't a nurses job and she went out of her way to say "IT IS NOW! HAHAHAHA!" Grrr!