Well you can always do a bridge program later..not to mention after you already have your LVN getting into a RN program is much easier. I've heard some good things about Indiana State online LVN to BSN program.
I moved back with my parents also to pursue my education. My parents and friends pointed out to me over and over it will be sooooo worth it in the long run.
Books I bought- Hesi NCLEX PN and Davis NCLEX-PN
Everyone in my class has basically purchased a different book we all share, test eachother, borrow eachothers CDs with practice questions. You just started your program but trust me its never too early to start preparing yourself for the hesi and NCLEX. Unless you are one of those test takers that is super good at multiple choice regardless of whether you have studied or not. If so luck you! :)