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  1. Sexism in nursing

    middleager replied to RNGuy12's topic in Men in Nursing

    I think what he is saying is sexism is viewed differently when the perp is a male than when it is a female. One of the previous comments was (paraphrased) Inappropriate comments are wrong...

  2. Are you encouraging other XYs to pursue nursing?

    middleager replied to Zyrv's topic in Male Nursing Students

    I could not agree more. Most of what I experienced teaching JA were harmful stereotypes and of course being gay was one of them. Don't get me wrong, I have no issue what so ever with homosexuality,...

  3. Are you encouraging other XYs to pursue nursing?

    middleager replied to Zyrv's topic in Male Nursing Students

    I agree, that was my experience when I was doing a JA class in a local high school. Some of the same social stigma that keeps the number of females in engineering keep males from considering nursing....

  4. Are you encouraging other XYs to pursue nursing?

    middleager replied to Zyrv's topic in Male Nursing Students

    I agree, the comment implying one gender or the other has more personality problems, more or less behavior issues, or is more or less qualified has no place in these conversations because they are...

  5. Are you encouraging other XYs to pursue nursing?

    middleager replied to Zyrv's topic in Male Nursing Students

    I agree 100% that the efforts should be at breaking down stereotypes, PR, perhaps recruiting into the profession is acceptable but it has to come down to whom is the most qualified. Nursing is...

  6. Are you encouraging other XYs to pursue nursing?

    middleager replied to Zyrv's topic in Male Nursing Students

    Well Elkpark they are the same barriers that prevent females from being represented in any number in Silicon Valley, on Police forces, etc. Barriers do not have to be physical, they do not have to be...

  7. Are you encouraging other XYs to pursue nursing?

    middleager replied to Zyrv's topic in Male Nursing Students

    Understood, I found the statement to be pointless as well. The profession is constantly at the top of the most trusted, 90% of nurses are female...it makes one think the obvious conclusion is someone...

  8. Are you encouraging other XYs to pursue nursing?

    middleager replied to Zyrv's topic in Male Nursing Students

    Well actually the history in men in nursing goes back to the Civil War when men were not allowed to be nurses as they needed soldiers to fight, and by the early 1900's most nursing schools allowed...

  9. Are you encouraging other XYs to pursue nursing?

    middleager replied to Zyrv's topic in Male Nursing Students

    I find the comments challenging the OP why would there be a need to encourage males due to diversity or balance interesting. I remember distinctly when I was in college the effort to bring females...

  10. Etiquette in the OR?

    middleager replied to trauma_lama's topic in Operating Room

    I find the comment "If you don't like it don't work here, but don't judge us" to be a bit self serving or perhaps dismissive. People are judged every day. We all judge people and their actions...

  11. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    Oh and Esme, I really appreciate your taking the time to correspond. I originally came to this site when I was considering a mid life occupation change. I ended up not doing it but am fascinated...

  12. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    Esme12 while we tend to think equal rights means we are the same (between genders). I don't believe that is the case. While we discussed if the genders were reversed there would likely be a lawsuit,...

  13. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    Interesting dissection of Banterings conversation. The history of male MD's dominating the field is well known as well as women's struggles in general for equal treatment. It continues at some level...

  14. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    Esme12, thanks for the comments and clarification. I really think these discussions could be very productive if both "sides" could communicate on a more rationale level. The lack of discussion often...

  15. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    The hard part about electronic exchanges is it is hard to read intent at times. I am having a little difficulty grasping your thought here Esme12 but I think we are close to being on the same page...

  16. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    Let me play devils advocate, it is what it is while maybe not acceptable is understandable. While we may get a little self righteous and demand others, in this case nurses stand up and fight for...

  17. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    Karou, I am not sure since your comment came after mine if you think I am a multiple, if so I can assure you I have a single account, and as far as I know do not have a split personality...but I will...

  18. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    Oh and I could not agree more, I get so tired of the condemning all providers & officers for the actions of a very very few, it is ridiculous. On one hand some posters condemn for labeling all...

  19. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    Esme12, I really do appreciate your honest and candid response. I think you hit the issue on the head "I am governed by hospital policy...." The fact that you recognize and more importantly are...

  20. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    SionainnRN I was referring to a comment made by Esme12 back on page 2(?). "Yes there isa double standard for female patients will get a female officer called for that officer to be female...males get...

  21. Male modesty double standard

    middleager replied to caregiver111's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    After reading the 8 pages of comments there is a lot digest. I question some of the accounts as well, understand perspective plays a lot in interpetation, sometimes we embelish to make our point....

  22. Half Question/Half Pet Peeve

    middleager replied to roser13's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    I have to agree, I find focusing on semantics to be a reach, terms like the "good old boys", "old boys club" etc are used all the time. I do however have to agree referring to women as "catty" or...

  23. Half Question/Half Pet Peeve

    middleager replied to roser13's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    Does anyone else feel like breaking out in a round of the song "Why can't we be friends, why can't we be friends". Bias is wrong, that simple, always was, always will

  24. Half Question/Half Pet Peeve

    middleager replied to roser13's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    dudette if we were talking about the past I would agree with you 100%. I have two grown daughters, while I witnessed sexism to the point where I took my corporate attorney to a school board meeting...

  25. Half Question/Half Pet Peeve

    middleager replied to roser13's topic in Patient, Colleague Relations

    And that is the double standard I was referring to. Affirmative action is needed and justified for females to rectify the past but it is wrong for males. Of course at one time males were discouraged...