i would love to say... even though you don't visit, care for, feed, etc mom/dad, you now want me to jump through hoops and bow down to your every demand (check bs every 30 minutes because we found her unconscious and her bs was 32 in ED-actually had family say this and became irate when I explained we would check her on schedule and at times when necessary since she was now stable)(this same family didn't know when mom ate, took insulin, how she got her food, etc). This isn't a hotel and despite the uniforms we are not your maids/servants! One of docs told a pt this, I almost fell out! I wanted to kiss him.