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Cul2

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  1. Baffled

    When you're stumped, when you have nothing to say, when you can develop no argument -- produce the ad hominem attack. That the best you can
  2. Baffled

    Stargazer: Glad to see you're sticking to the topic of this thread. I presented a point of view relative to the topic. You don't have to agree with it. We can just agree, civilly, to disagree. But...
  3. Baffled

    Gee, Stargazer. You so sure that you know who and what I am or am not. Dodging your question? I have absolutely no obligation to share any personal information with you. And because I don't, you jump...
  4. Baffled

    "i read your post. i know what it said. the original post, and the topic of this thread, was an observation of human behavior that we nurses encounter frequently. sometimes we can make stereotypes...
  5. Baffled

    you said: " i don't buy this. if this was true, then all patients would assume helplessness upon admission to the hospital. but not all patients do. so, there *must* be a component of the...
  6. Baffled

    I don't deny that there are people who are helpless before they arrive at the hospital and then continue the behavior there, and are often enabled. But there are many people who are not helpless who...
  7. Baffled

    "hospital induced paralysis. it is a syndrome in which an individual becomes completely helpless upon crossing the hospital threshold." hospitals can "induce" the kind of behavior you describe -- if...
  8. And no one person suggests that you ask the man if he might feel more comfortable if a male nurse did the procedure. Maybe he wouldn't. Maybe he would. How would you know? Ask. I know. I know....
  9. It seems to me that, for some at least, this issue is at heart about trust, honesty, oversight and supervision. Some may just firmly be against having any student nurse or doctor work on them. But...
  10. patient privacy

    "but i am not such a special snowflake that i really need to worry about what professionals are thinking about my corpus." i don't disagree with that point of view, but it is a point of view. as...
  11. My concerns have nothing to do with whether these young people are competent or caregiving. Of course they could be. But they are minors. Who takes the responsibility for their actions? Who's the deep...
  12. patient privacy

    Let's do a little philosophy here, okay? Ontology -- no, this isn't about cancer. It's about the essence of what it means to be a "patient." What "is" a patient? And what "is not" a patient. A patient...
  13. It's interesting how the focus here is on just one side of the issue. If patient autonomy has any significance at all, if individual values and differences count, if respect and dignity matter, than...
  14. According to the definition of sexual harassment, if you overhear something that you feel is harassment and it bothers you, offends you, then it can be considered sexual harassment. You're the one...
  15. Embarrasing illnesses

    Isn't this interesting. All the stories are about men. I guess no females ever come into the ER for any embarrassing conditions. Or is this just an example of why its unhealthy for one gender to...
  16. Baffled

    "sweetheart, i'm pretty sure they were kidding. it was in fun. calm down.and be careful going home." pretty sure, huh? yes, and god help a group of male nurses who joke like this about female...
  17. For a perspective on this topic from a great American poet, short story writer, and doctor, read the short story, "The Use of Force" by William Carlos Williams. You'll find it here: The Use of...
  18. "you didn't need to get a male attendant to finish up this shower, and you don't need to avoid this patient in the future or be sure he is only showered by a male attendant because that will only make...
  19. Can I become a CNA at age 16?

    Is there a particular reason why my posts were removed from this
  20. To the OP -- I think the first thing you need to do is to stop calling these behaviors "no-no's." That diminishes their significance. If they are indeed insignificant, then ignore them. If they...
  21. Heartbroken. Ball was dropped BIG TIME. Advice?

    "Hmmm, you seem more upset about how the notification was handled than about the actual death, am I missing something?" Perhaps. You may be missing the elemental significance of communication...
  22. Heartbroken. Ball was dropped BIG TIME. Advice?

    IMO, this isn't about mistakes. Everyone realizes mistakes happen. This is about how, too often, mistakes are handled in medical situations. No explanation, no apology, no empathy, no consideration --...
  23. bad nursing care rant

    "unfortunately its not my place to do that. the family is so heartbroken and distressed that taking legal action against the hospital that may not even do anything is the last thing on their mind.. it...
  24. bad nursing care rant

    You need to report this in detail -- times, places, names, etc. Let them sort out whether there were mitigating circumstances, reasons that this happened. Let them investigate and find out. If we just...
  25. "We (Nurses) are being dumb-ed down for the sake of cost-cutting measures. We are too expensive. They would rather hire a CNA than an RN because it's cheaper." This is the essence of it all. What...