Cul2 replied to FutureNurseKaturah's topic in General Nursing
futurenursekaturah -- are you a nursing student? a high school student? i'm not so concerned with nursing students in nursing school. i am more concerned with those under 18 years old, those with no...
Thanks for the clarification, dtchavey. As I've said, I'm convinced the right attitude, the right approach,the right empathy, caring, can break down these barriers, most of the time, with both...
"There are a lot of reasons for this behavior. Male nurses who are new grads, but have never worked as a PCT or CNA are the worst offenders. The unfortunate reduction of clinical hours as mandated by...
Cul2 replied to FutureNurseKaturah's topic in General Nursing
"Well what is HIPAA?" The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) of 1996 As a future nurse, you need to become familiar with this act, esp if you get involved in shadowing and get...
"When you were done, I asked you if it was possible for me to go to the bathroom. You waved past the triage room towards the waiting room and said, “There’s a bathroom over there, you can walk...
Cul2 replied to FutureNurseKaturah's topic in General Nursing
How do you handle HIPAA with high school students? Those under 18 can't legally sign a paper attesting to their compliance. They're minors. They're under no binding legal constraints to keep patient...
nursemike -- Good post. A few points. 1 You write: "Many men with military experience, for example, have been schooled to overcome their modesty." That may be true for some but not all. I bothers...
nursemike -- On other posts I try to disconnect racial prejudice from this whole modesty issue. In most all cases, they're not the same at all. I'm not saying it can never be the same. In my last...
nursemike: First, I want to thank you for such thoughtful posts. As I said before, I don't think disagree over too much. Yes, "shallow" was not a good word to describe any kind of empathy. But I do...
Interesting post, nursemike. We really don't disagree on most items. I'm certainly not saying this gender problem is the nursing profession's fault. It's a cultural dynamic. And I'm not suggesting we...
nursemike: Attempting here to play the Devil's Advocate -- I think what annoys some men is what they consider the double standard regarding this whole issue of men's modesty and accommodation. You...
"Whoa, dude, why the hostility? Mike has a valid point. He witnessed what appeared to him controlling and jealous behavior and just said that in hindsight, he wondered whether getting the pt alone for...
nursemike: "Each patient is unique, and even the same patient may be very different at different times. When I argue that gender shouldn't matter, I don't mean "take it or leave it." But I do...
Interesting comments, nursemike. Let me start by saying that, for me, gender of caregiver for intimate care isn't necessarily a big issue. As with most patients, it's contextural depending upon many...
nursemike -- Thanks for your thoughtful response. As I've stated before, patient attitude toward nurse gender for intimate care, I believe, is most likely connected with whether patients feel...
nursemike -- I've followed many of your posts and have great respect for you point of view -- which I've expressed in the past. But I need to point out some reasoning flaws in your last post. --...
Cul2 replied to Kel Cardaras's topic in Nursing Humor
Look, all. Do what you want. It doesn't upset me personally. I'm just expressing an opinion. There are consequences for everything we do. Some good, some bad. The fact is, you're open to the world. I...
Cul2 replied to Kel Cardaras's topic in Nursing Humor
This the la la land of the internet. People often write as if they're in the break room or having coffee with a friend in an intimate setting. This is the "world-wide web" folks. World-wide. It's...
"What is wrong with saying "I am getting my RN"? ALot of people are going for their RN and its fine to say that. It does not bother me at all when people tell me they are going for their RN. I don't...
You make an important point, monsuun. Patient gender preference is most often very complex. It most often has nothing to do with whether they think one gender is more competent than another. It...
nursemike "If I were doing a straight cath on a female, another male should be just as capable as any female of testifying that I did nothing inappropriate. But would the patient not think it odd if I...
to colin the red rn -- what you've described is a very caregiver-centered practice. i'm not saying it may not be necessary. we live in a world that often requires it. but it takes away...
During the Supreme Court's recent discussion of the Wal-Mart gender-discrimination case, Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, compared this case to a successful 1970's case against American Telephone and...
Okay. Let's say I agree with her. What I'm trying to do is see how her logic applies to a profession, like nursing. Are women more likely to hire women, and men more likely to hire men? I think that's...
Is there a connection between these two quotes found on this thread? “If I have a choice I'd prefer a female doctor because they've been through the procedures, and tend to use more appropriate...