Atheos

Atheos

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  1. Alternative to spanking

    Really? Name one person in your life that HASN'T betrayed you at least once. Minus your children... Just one. :) Remember, even a lie is a betrayal. Not all betrayals are large life changing, Judas...
  2. Alternative to spanking

    Everyone I meet gets all my trust from the get go. If you have it, you have it implicitly. If you lose it, you lose it forever. It's up to you if you keep it or lose it. Trust goes BOTH ways. People...
  3. Alternative to spanking

    The important things like love, honesty, integrity, forgiveness. I'd like to think so... :) What else is there to
  4. Alternative to spanking

    you state kids need love and discipline. if kids don't need comfort and nurturing, then how do you define love? love - knowing that my parents would die for me before allowing harm to come to me....
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    I'll never punish my kids for swearing because I think the whole 'swearing is bad' thing is bunk.
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    we are human beings who have the ability, need and the desire to nurture, comfort and love our young. desire and ability don't equal need. we do nurture and comfort our children but those are...
  7. Alternative to spanking

    My parent's started out spanking me for swearing until they found that I DESPISED the soap in the mouth thing. They didn't use regular soap. Oh No! They liked the idea of liquid soap.
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    Who told you that nonsense. ROFL. The sole purpose of parents is to teach their children so that they can survive. SURVIVE. Nurturers and comforters. LOL Spanking in no way diminishes that trust. Has...
  9. Alternative to spanking

    ROFL! My father said I could call but that they'd be arresting him for murder and not abuse. LOL I like that, you got to get to the phone
  10. I agree... HEY WAIT!!! Why are you shaking the Jesus candy at me!?!?!?!? ROFL!!!!! J/K ETA: Sometimes I just forget or am not paying attention and repeat Merry Christmas to people. LOL I can't be on...
  11. Easy to NOT say as
  12. I readily admit that 90% of my problems in life have been caused by my mouth (hands as well). Hehehe. I can't think and self regulate at the same time. To do one means less of the other. I haven't...
  13. LOL There are WORSE words but I don't wanna say them and it is only an example. Basically, I am telling you that IF YOU KNOW Me and still tell me Merry Christmas you are being offensive on purpose. If...
  14. You are right. I have become rude and disrespectful in previous threads. But... Not today. :) But... So have you and most of the other people that post in the political forums... It's WAY harder to...
  15. Many, if not most un-politically correct terms are rude. Would you call me colored because you don't like the politically correct AA? You can't separate the non-politically correct and the rude. They...
  16. By adopted you mean 'stole in an attempt to suppress the previous religion and pacify the newly dominated peoples.' You are right though. All of the Christian holidays have their basis in pagan...
  17. Did not know about them. I, however, would not tell them Happy Holidays now that I know. It's a small point. A small gesture of respect for them. Easy enough to do.
  18. A) No one's religion bars holidays in the generic sense... B) It's basically a religious argument. Of course the dominant religion would consider it a 'minor' thing to bicker about. C) If it was so...
  19. Well employers DO have the right to set those rules... Maybe they are silly but it does prevent some offense. BTW - It's not the Merry Christmas that's offensive. It's the looks and or comments or...
  20. Alternative to spanking

    Sometimes it IS ok to hit other people. You should also teach your children that hitting is NOT always bad. Next time I see a crime go down I'll just stand still because hitting is bad. Like my...
  21. I Contracted HIV

    Ugh. I don't know what to say. I am so
  22. That's when I escalate it. I try to be subtle (yeah, not my specialty) at first. It get's quite obvious though. The same way you can tell that someone just touched a burning hot pan. Then if that...
  23. If you pull away from people obviously and quickly when they start the touching business they get the idea. OR they'll wise up and ask if touching bothers
  24. And presumptuous and indicative of one's lack of respect for