The wording may have seemed cold (I personally don't think it is, simply calling a spade a spade), but it is still a fact. If you choose to have children, then you need to accept the consequences...
Dayray: One of the reasons I, as a single w/o kids put my foot down is because the MWK never reciprocated. So, I really don't care if I have no plans on that day. If I want to relax with my other...
Marie, I'm not understanding your point. The pt was Spanish speaking, I wouldn't have been going through a family member. So, instead of having a medical professional interpret, they pulled someone...
I would be one of the naysayers, but since hogan has advised you to ignore anything I or another person with a dissenting opinion might say, I guess I won't bother. If you do a search on this topic,...
No one person's family takes priority over another's. And I think the frustration from people like me comes from having been treated like we "owed it" to work for people with children, and the lack of...
WOOT! I remember getting really fed up with a doc that was yelling at me on the phone. When he got into the unit, he was all sweetnes and light. He came up to me and started talking...I put my hand...
In my experience, the answer to that was NEVER! I used to work them all, as a favor to the Mommies. Then one time I got an invitation to go sailing and needed to be off on a Friday. Not one of the...
We had a Spanish speaking pt in the ED who needed an interpreter. He refused my services as an interpreter; even though I'm fluent in Spanish, I was not Hispanic, and he wanted a Hispanic interpreter....
So true...unfortunately, sometimes unresolved issues for the pt can cause agitation/restlessness. Spiritual pain needs to be addressed as well. And some people just do not die peacefully, no matter...
Hospice does not work to prolong life nor shorten it. Some things that might make sense in another setting would be contraindicated in hospice. IV fluids with severe emesis: all that's going to do is...
Hospice nurse here...yes, I have seen Haldol used as an anti-emetic. One of the mantras we have is "using traditional meds in non-traditional ways." Certain things work in the terminal setting that...
Former hospice nurse here, and now back in hospice nursing again. If the pt can't tol po's, parenteral fluids do not really do much good; I had a pt basically "drown" in fluid overload because the...
Doncha just love people who aren't even nurses yet, telling those of us who have walked the walk how nursing should be, and how nurses should feel. Graduate, get your license, work a couple years,...
fab4fan replied to *Ferty~OB~RN*'s topic in Ob/Gyn
I would rather have bamboo spikes hammered under my fingernails than work OB; I hated it when OB pts. came to the ED, because for some reason, I usually got them. Good thing we all have our...
Well, I don't celebrate the holidays, and that is exactly how I got taken advantage of, and not just in one place. Everyone felt like it was my responsibility to work since I didn't celebrate. Well,...
I think the point is more that some people feel that they should never have to do holidays/off-shifts/weekends by virtue of the fact that they have kids, and those who don't have kids should be the...
Well, I don't celebrate Xmas, which is why I used to work the holiday (and others) every year, so people with kids could be off. But after several years when that was not reciprocated, I finally said...
I get sick of it, too. Try getting someone with kids to cover for you when you want off..."Oh, I can't, Peggy Sue has tap/piano/gymnastics/insert your excuse here..." Getting people with kids to cover...