SmilingBluEyes

Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis

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    Have you ever left in the middle of a shift?

    Just move on. Time to
  2. Kristy: Moral of the story: Don't tell people what you are doing. It's none of their business and they will tattle on you just to make trouble. Time to make it all legal. Alcohol is much more...
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    Why does Nursing have to be a passion?

    It need not be. One can succeed as a nurse without feeling "passionate" about the work. It's a means to an end for many. And that's
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    Nurse falsifying information

    Without clear substantive facts I would say no you should not do
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    Nightingale Nursing ... On its Deathbed

    No compassion for the caregiver. That's what has happened to
  6. Social media and work just don't mix. I don't mention my work on FB or other social media sites, period. Those who do are risking losing their jobs. It's up to the employer what is acceptable and what...
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    Does being addressed as "Nurse" annoy anyone?

    I guess it would depend on the tone it's used
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    New pregnant nurse

    Congratulations. Make an appointment with an OB or Midwife ASAP and get from him/her what is safe and what is not for during pregnancy. We can't offer advice like that here. I wish you a happy...
  9. I cut off close relations with toxic people. You should, too. Just be polite but share nothing about your personal life, or choices. It's best in the long
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    Can I travel in L&D after only 1 year?

    No it is not feasible. You are not
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    Frequent Bathing is Harmful to Health: 17th Century Pilgrims

    You know in Winter, I often take showers every other day. I have had no complaints about my smell. (including those who would tell me if I did smell! LOL). I wear a very good deodorant----one that...
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    Feeling burnt out. Looking for advice.

    I applaud your self-awareness and desire to do best by your patients and families. I agree with the others who say a consistent schedule is key. I know I rotate (somewhat) between days and evenings...
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    Taking a Long Leave of Absence from Work

    "Take the time to care for your health today......or you will be forced to take time to care for disease later". That's all I have to
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    Shift Nurses Post-Pandemic

    I am sorry; too little way too late. To turn the tide takes more than words. It takes ACTION. On the parts of nurses to band together and the parts of powers-that-be to put the money on the
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    Leaving job after 7 months

    How do you go? You say "it's been a wonderful opportunity for me. I wish you all the best. This is not a good fit, is all". Simple as
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    Fix Staffing Ratios by Monetizing the Value of Nurses

    This is not a new concept; nurses and other staff are just an expense to corporations; this we know. It's also not a new idea to "charge" for nursing services. I have heard this for years. They...
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    Returning to Work After COVID

    Listen to your body. Go back when you are physically ready. And take better care of yourself. I wish you
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    Continuing to work with patient if change job?

    My thoughts exactly. Boundaries
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    Share your Nurses Week "gifts"

    I cannot complain; I got a box of chocolates and a plant. I love both. I am
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    Any Nurses In Long Term Care Setting?

    I hear you. I have worked LTC and I discovered something: a lot of them burnt their bridges a LONG time ago with family who may have been there if they had been kind to them when they were...
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    Any Nurses In Long Term Care Setting?

    I am so sorry you're going through this. But a huge part of the solution lies in the sentence I bolded. You need strong boundaries to protect your heart. It's always sad when we lose our patients we...
  22. I don't think you should emulate anyone. You should build a relationship with this patient based on being your best self. Don't copy others; it's
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    Daily Rant Thread

    SO MUCH bait and switch
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    Daily Rant Thread

    "You are a...... "hero" "angel" "the best nurse" whatever else falsely superlative. It's patronizing and insulting. And it means absolutely
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    Should good health be a requirement for certain positions?

    Yep! SO what are your prepared to do about