TrudyRN replied to Nascar nurse's topic in Geriatric, LTC
I know you said that you are not the boss, Nascar, and that means you can't discipline staff for not complying. Therefore, you must either let it go, find a way to get the boss to tie staffs'...
Dani, keep being honest, keep protecting your patients. Know that the Director maltreated you. Do speak with her when you are more dispassionate. Keep it totally professional. Do let her know that...
TrudyRN replied to Purple Princess's topic in General Nursing
Well, for starters, an anonymous letter to OSHA and to your state's Labor Relations Board or to a federal government attorney general or someone in authority is needed, as your employer is not giving...
I bet the laws are better in Canada. Only in America do we force ourselves to leave our suckling babes and go back to work. I guess you will have to guage how to approach the new boss and what to...
TrudyRN replied to lvs2nrs3535's topic in Geriatric, LTC
I'm not sure I'd write the first letter. If you have talked things over with your boss and gotten nowhere, if you have spoken with anyone else in authority and all to no avail, why do it again now?...
I'm so glad your mom won. Sorry it had to be the hard way but, as you say, she got to use up her hard-earned sick time, as well she should have. It was a benefit she had coming to her, they monkeyed...
Make a plan. When interruptions come, and they most surely will, prioritize. Re-prioritize PRN. Accept that Nursing is a series of interruptions, interrupted by interruptions and you will do fine. In...
I'm sorry they are acting so evil, zaleah. I think you might want to say to them what you said here. Gently, of course, so they won't think you're threatening to leave. But I'm confused as to why...
Thanks for all the understanding and encouragement, guys! I have thought about leaving but really am trying to hang in and get that pension. I'm really close to achieving it. I am trying to figure out...
social work, librarian, interior designer, owner of my own business of any kind that doesn't have anything to do with sick people in sad circumstances; oh, and maybe a lawyer or a writer or a worker...
Right on re: patient advocacy. As for "The Naked City" - well, it was New York, I think. And I'm thinking it was more like a million stories. It's been a long time, not really sure. I hope that...
As a mother, you know your own child best. Try not to be too haughty, though, as you might find yourself in someone else's home someday and they might think YOU do some things that aren't "common...
I hope all of you find much better situations. It infuriates me when employers use and abuse staff. Then they have the absolute gall to tell you you need to manage time better. I love that you told...
Document. Let me say it again. Document. And do obtain witness statements, if possible. Don't be surprised if your "friends" on the unit suddenly develop amnesia and become HOH. Most people are...
Interesting how different cultures having different meanings for the same word. When I was a correctional facility nurse, there was a prisoner who took a shine to me. The best way he knew to convey...
Uh, no. LOL I figured the "Brother" title would be apropos. Surely someone knows the answer to this. Or are you the first male RN down under? If so, well, I want a cyber handshake,
Oh, man, it is soooo hard to give advice to other people. Not knowing where your heart is, what you're about, it is simply not possible to advise you, yet I feel like I want to help you decide. I...
I'm really sorry for the suffering of your uncle, aunt, and you, and all of your family. It is so hard sometimes to let go. Try not to be too upset with your aunt. She is, after all, losing her...
I feel your pain. My DNS is sometimes quite unwilling to take what I think is necessary action, also. Mostly, I just move on, keep quiet, let her be the boss. I don't know if you have tried going over...