That's ridiculous for you to have to put up with a bully just because you manager is being a non-manager. Submit your concerns in writing to your manager, and tell her you're sending a copy to the HR...
For pete's sake, this is the most ridiculous discussion I've ever read, including the ADN vs BSN controversy. I've done every type of ICU nursing for 28 years, including management and educator...
It's very important that you check with your State Board to see their view on this. I have done classes for Datascope Balloon Pumps and they do not endorse that RN's d/c IABP's because of the rare...