Ms Blue Sky

Ms Blue Sky has 6 years experience and specializes in Learning Disability nursing.

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1. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

   Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

   His case will go to extra care panel next week, we never would have got this far for him to move, if I'd just dished out pills and

2. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

   Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

   He is engaging again now with myself and his social worker which is wonderful news I will be leaving and introducing him to his new nurse before I go

3. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

   Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

   It kind of feels like Sisyphus, like pushing this gigantic heavy boulder up hill, getting to the top. Then the boulder just rolling down and you're back at square one again To compensate for his...

4. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

   Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

   Thank you Davey Do, in a nutshell that's how it is He is angry because he feels he has no control over his own destiny and I don't blame him. The problem is he is more vulnerable than he knows or...

5. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

   Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

   So maybe it's better I leave it so he feels he pushed me away and can be angry...than me leaving? Less

6. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

   Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

   Awww yes for sure, it's a really tough one, just before this pushing away he said a previous nurse had helped him and then left him ? And with his BPD he probably dreads abandonment I love...

7. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

   Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

   If I can I will say bye and explain I got another job It will be hard but I was starting to feel like I would never get free and had to forever be his carer as he is so vulnerable I may...

8. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

   Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

   Update: I have made the wrench! I had to quit the job with notice as the commute was killing me...I had another wonderful opportunity and couldn't turn it down. I almost didn't take it because of this...

9. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

   Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

   This man is so extremely hard to engage with if one does not persist due to trust issues then when he trusts he is lovely, he has fallen between the cracks and lost access to so many services in the...

10. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

    Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

    Hey No Stars In My Eyes that's just what I was planning Just has to be the right person once I have found someone I will feel free to move on I will be happy to find someone as I can then...

11. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

    Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

    Thank you Okami, I'm thinking straighter now and seeing how ridiculous the idea of working with him in a new job would be The truth is though (cannot write much here because of confidentiality)...

12. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

    Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

    Yes I will discuss it moving forwards, as for sure there is a danger of it getting out of hand I like the idea of a well thought out plan thank

13. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

    Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

    Well I changed my mind and decided to stay as at this point I don't want to let him down it feels wrong I will try to break the unhealthy dependency / dynamic Thank you all

14. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

    Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

    Thank you, yes I do I will leave and still present the case at panel for him luckily that is coming up soon ☺️ I will say goodbye and explain I am leaving as this job is right near my...

15. Continuing to work with patient if change job?

    Ms Blue Sky replied to Ms Blue Sky's topic in General Nursing

    Davey Do that is lovely such a sweet story but yeah it is quite a different situation to mine I guess, but like you I do care about this patient In my case, it's got to the stage where this chap...