I did - at first she said that we'd hear by the end of the week, until I told her that deposits were due for other schools by May 1st and then she said we'd hear by then. So, it didn't sound...
I too have been lurking on the boards without saying anything. I have a confession - I went against the rules and e-mailed NJCU a couple of days ago, asking when would be the latest date we'd hear....