Lakewood is the way to go. It's slightly more upscale with "young professionals" all over and it's safe. 20 minutes from the building classes will be in, 15 if speed limits are suggestions to
I feel like mine was rough and could've gone way better as well. It's a sucky feeling because all I do is reflect and wish I would have said blah blah blah instead of yatta yatta. Hopefully they don't...