LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to klone's topic in General Nursing
I think at the heart of this issue is that employees that tend to say such things feel like in some way they were ignored. "Doing something" does not necessarily mean getting rid of the employee that...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to Nursedina2011's topic in Nurses Recovery
I do not think that that's true about the OP.. I don't know why she'd lie to us when this is completely anonymous. I would tell your current employer, whoever you can trust, and I would do this in...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to gypsierose's topic in Geriatric, LTC
That is absolutely ridiculous. I would first try to confront the issue head-on. Ensure that the nurse absolutely 100% knows that there is no equipment and that it sounds like the other aides are...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to marace's topic in General Nursing
"The process is to be examined, not to punish anyone but to see where the errors were made and enforce how to prevent. People make mistakes" This is true. You were not treated well at all, and for...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to Emergent's topic in General Nursing
I agree. I could see if it was some issue where you divulged information about the other patient. But the fact of the matter is nurses are responsible for a set number of patients and certain...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to ModernRN's topic in General Nursing
I agree with the examples you give to both cases of bullying and non-bullying. And I agree - sometimes it can be abused. I certainly want the concern brought forward (hopefully to the 'alleged' bully...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to ModernRN's topic in General Nursing
You are in denial. Bullying in nursing is so pervasive it was part of my nursing education. That is a fact. Just because you haven't experienced it does not mean it does not
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to Drgnfy13's topic in General Nursing
This is very true. I also like TriciaJ's advice. Ask for specifics about the complaints (from the person alleging that there has been some complaints brought forth). If there is any validity, they...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to Drgnfy13's topic in General Nursing
I am so sorry you went through this experience OP. You had to do what was right for your mental health and get out of there. I definitely see what you were getting at by referencing the Holocaust...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to ModernRN's topic in General Nursing
I am sorry you have had such an awful experience as a nurse. I have seen both the extremely negative and extremely positive sides of nursing. I'd have to say that the environments which foster the...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to heather.verbs's topic in General Nursing
Apply as many places as you can, to keep your options open. Night shifts would not be bad to work and you would probably have a better time gaining seniority as there would be less competition for...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to Emergent's topic in General Nursing
I really feel like nursing should have some sort of aptitude test to gain entry into nursing programs - college and university programs. Great grades don't necessarily mean you'll be a great nurse, so...
LetLoveNReasonUnite replied to LovingMom1's topic in General Nursing
I am so, so sorry for the loss of your mother. You provided her with exceptional care and it sounds like you were very diligent during her final hours. It sounds like it was her time to go,...
I did not accuse anyone on here of being a bully.. nor do I expect people to be perfect. I think we should be decent human beings to each other. Remember at any point a coworker can become a patient....