Pregnant and not motivated!!

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Hey everyone, I hope school is going well for you!!

I started my second semester (of a 4 semester program) last week and I can't seem to get motivated to study. With my first semester all I did was study and I actually enjoyed it. I was surprised to find out I was pregnant last month and am finding myself so tired I don't want to do anything! I just need advice to get me motivated, I need to kick this to the curb before I get any deeper in the semester.

Thanks for listening!

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The only solid advice I can give you is make sure you are eating right and try to get a little exercise in every day. Even if it's just getting out in the sunshine to take a 30 minute walk, it will help. I had horrible morning sickness when I was pregnant. I didn't want to get out of bed most days. Once I was actually up and moving, I felt a lot better. Don't underestimate the power of sunshine and a nice breeze.

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Oh....and CONGRATS!

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Specializes in NICU, Infection Control.

You're tired cuz you're pregnant!! (which you probably realize) If you haven't gone to the doc, do that. If you're not too urpy, start your prenatals, and watch your diet--more protein and leafy greens.

If it's possible to "schedule" a nap in the middle of the day, it might help.

Best of luck, and congrats!!!

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Like you I have had the same privilege of being pregnant during nursing school. And like you I also felt un-motivated and pre-occupied with getting everything ready for baby's arrival. My best advice is eat right, drink plenty of water, get lot's of rest, take your pre-natal vitamin's, especially iron if you need it and best of luck to you.

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I think take the advice that most have posted.. but take care of yourself and health. Also, if it can keep you motivated.. look at it like this... Your only pregnant for 9 months.. The time it would take for you to get back into NS, would be longer than that. Stay with it and you will see it in the end. Have your career and a new baby! Or the alternative.. a baby and back in NS dealing with all of it all over again!! Keep it up.. I will hope the best for you!! Good Luck

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Specializes in Acute Mental Health.

Congrats on your pregnancy! I'm not pregnant and still not motivated this semester. I'm sure you have so many other new things on your mind and trying to focus on this semester is understandably not on your radar at all. Enjoy every moment and have faith that after the first trimester your usually not as tired. I remember feeling like I did before I became preggers. Then came those last few months and the tiredness sets back in (and never leaves after birth...haha). I wouldn't trade any of it for the world then or now. I wish you and your baby well. :redpinkhe

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Thank you everyone for your reply! I am almost 8 weeks now and haven't had any morning sickness, so I assume I am not going to have that to deal with! I am napping just about everyday and going to bed early but I am worried for Monday, its our first official 12 hour day in the hospital. I am also learning that I can not study at home because I will fall asleep which is good to know.

I also have 3 autoimmune diseases and am considered high risk so I have already been to the dr twice and go back again in 2 weeks. She told me to just listen to my body. I am also trying to eat lots of protein which seems to help.

Thank you again, I can do this. I have heard this tiredness will go away after the 12th week which is not that far away.

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Specializes in Med/Surg, L&D.

I feel your pain. I am 7 weeks pregnant and am having a horrible time with motivation. Mostly, I think it is the mood swings that are getting me. It is hard to study when I can't stop crying for no reason! Also, I just started a new job as a CNA for 12 hours shifts. I know it is not the same as clinicals, but it is very physical work and I am surviving ok. You can do it. We both can.

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I feel your pain. I am 7 weeks pregnant and am having a horrible time with motivation. Mostly, I think it is the mood swings that are getting me. It is hard to study when I can't stop crying for no reason! Also, I just started a new job as a CNA for 12 hours shifts. I know it is not the same as clinicals, but it is very physical work and I am surviving ok. You can do it. We both can.

Thank you, you are right, we both can do this! I just kept telling myself that last night while I was trying to study.

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I can't imagine what you must be going through.

After reading the responses and personal reflection, what do you think would motivate you?

My wife and I enjoyed two pregancies together. It was a magical time for her and I was blessed by the level that she involved me.

Has your pregnancy strengthened the relationships that you have with others? Before becoming pregnant, what were your priorities in life? What are they now?

Congratulations.

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Think of how completing NS will benefit you and your new child. Don't quit. Keep hydrated and keep eating. I had terrible morning sickness during my pregnancy (couldn't eat or drink without feeling sick) and it made studying difficult. I went to a bad school so I decided to leave school and begin again somewhere else. But don't give up. You can do it I wish I could have.

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