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Ok,so this isn't a nursing thread per se,but I am having a dilemma,and am in desperate need of advice!
I just started a job as a 'part-time' PCA for a quadraplegic man in his 30's. He is pleasant,but meticulous and demanding (I understand he probably needs to feel more in control of his life,so I can deal with that aspect), but I really feel like I am doing things that are not within my scope of practice (1 semester of LPN school!,not a CNA) On my first day (12/22) I was told by the patient,and his caseworker that I was going to to work from 8-1.
In that time I had to give him a shower,transfer him via hoyer 4 times,roll him without a draw sheet, as well as insert a suppository and change his condom cathether.The job was originally described to me as 'light housekeeping,meal prep and some grooming'!
After all this,I ended up there until 4:30 (but only paid until 1!!!) He told me it had been a busy week and that it wouldn't happen again.He then tells me he wants me to come back from 5-9. At this point I became very visibly upset-I was clearly in way over my head.
The next day,it was the same lousy schedule.I was so sore (not used to rolling over somebody 250lbs by myself!) but I went back because he didn't have anyone else to help him.He tells me bowel care wont be a routine, then he has a loose BM in his brief,and acts surprised (he has some sensation as he knew when he had to go the day before) Finally toward the end of the second shift,I was packing his wounds and when I turn around to get a 4x4 he had a full-on erection!
I don't want to ditch the guy,but alot of what I was doing made me very uncomfortable. Am I being unreasonable?
I am supposed to go back there on Saturday,against everyones advice. I dont want to let anybody down,but I think for $10.84/hr I am being taken advantage of.
Does anyone have any experience with this job description? Am I doing things I shouldn't be? I know I kind of walked in to this,but I really feel like I was mislead.
Any advice would be so appreciated,and I apologize for the length!!!