I have this patient who asks for ativan every day at 7pm. I was told by my supervisor that I need to offer alternative ways to calm her down before giving her the ativan, such as offering food, water, one on one, back rub, visualization etc. Well this patient refuses to take part in the other methods and sternly says I wouldn't ask for it if I didn't need it. But at 5 oclock, she will say bring me an ativan at 7, and I think how does she know she will be anxious at 7 o'clock? The only time she doesn't end up getting the medication is if she doesn't ask for it, if she does, she bullies me until I cave and I cave pretty easy. I talked with a fellow nurse on a different shift about how "pain is what the patient says it is" but is anxiety what the patient says it is as well? I think yes, but i wonder what my supervisor thinks. How should I go about this situation?