Parent wants to stay all day

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What would your response be to a parent who wants to stay at school all day to provide their child's diabetes management care? Based on some of the threads I've read, I anticipate that some school nurses would be grateful for the extra assistance, but I'm thinking in terms of a small school with no physical place for the parent to be... not the health office, not the lobby, not the classroom, not in the hallway.

For the sake of not spiraling into if-this and if-thats, I'll offer what I can think of... this is a 10 year old student is reported to be age-appropriately educated about her diabetes care, well controlled, has a pump, soon to be getting a glucose monitor, is able to self check blood sugar and will need supervision counting carbs. Finances are not an obstacle. Parents are well educated, in general and in the realm of diabetes. Home is 5-10 minutes from school but parent requests to stay in the building all day to provide care at a moments notice.

Private school. 1 nurse. 1000+ students and faculty. Several buildings on small campus where nurse might have to tend to accident or injury or other job requirements. Parent seems very hesitant to coordinate care with school, won't allow school nurse or staff to consult with MD or be a part of child's decision making team.

At current school, mom enters classroom q2, assists with BG check/snack/insulin etc.

I realize there are about a million factors that could sway your answers, but simply based on the above description, please advise.

Thanks, in advance.

Specializes in School Nursing, Pediatrics.

Wow, helicopter parent much? Clearly this woman has nothing better to do (like work). I feel bad for the student, they will be ridiculed MORE for having Mommy there then having diabetes! She needs to trust you and know that you will call her right away for anything out of the ordinary.

Specializes in IMC, school nursing.

This is beyond helicopter, this is a lawnmower parent, one who goes out and mows down any obstacle the LD may encounter. Sadly, I know all too well the politics of private school. Lawnmowers just need to send an extra $500 to the school and anything is allowed. Why the university scandal in the news is no big deal to private school parents, in fact, they were just continuing the milieu they were accustomed to.

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