I feel like a failure. I busted my hump to attend nursing school at night and on weekends for 4+ years while I continued to work full time at a job I loved. Graduated, passed the NCLEX on the first try, life is golden, right?
I hung onto my previous job for 18 months after getting my license. Waited 9 months until I got my first RN position. I did PDN for a little one and it was so mentally taxing, being alone for all those hours while he slept and no adult interaction. I left that position after about 18 months and took my current one in a rehab facility. I love that I'm getting to use my skills and get to actually TALK to people 12 hours every shift, BUT, I feel like I'm constantly second-guessing myself on everything I do. It doesn't help that some day shift nurses like to second-guess, arm-chair quarterback what I do as well. Management is very cliquey and I am too old to play those games. Honestly, I come home every morning I work thinking "what did I miss, what did I forget to tell in shift report, who didn't I call in the middle of the night to update on something?" It's far too stressful for me. I KNOW being a nurse is stressful, but I hate bringing it home with me every single day.
So now I'm thinking that its not the jobs, it's nursing that I don't like. I haven't even told my husband how I feel (not that he'd EVER judge me, but I just feel like I'd be letting him down.) I am applying like crazy to get out of hands on nursing, please wish me luck that something comes my way quickly! I'm hoping that the glut of nurses are looking for hands-on positions and the options will be a little more open for someone like me who's thinking the exact opposite!