Not a good nurse - uneasy about babies

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Before I begin, please do not judge me.

As I mentioned on a previous thread, I have finally been accepted into an LPN program. Since I was little, I wanted to be a flight attendant first & a nurse second (I can hear the ringing of sexism in the background). Anyway, I also knew when I was small that I did not want children. I was an only child and I think that has something to do with it. I have never been crazy about kids(just born to 3yrs), but can handle them more now than 4 years ago. I have a wonderful marriage of almost 9 years & have no children. Last year, I had a "cut & snip" to make that decision final. I have no regrets, because I knew that I wanted to be a nurse, dedicate my life to my husband & career, & maybe one day open up a catholic nursing home in my area.

With that being said, I am very good & can handle blood, vomit, body-parts, urine, operations, you name it. But, I have a hard time handling babies, mothers-to-be, anything to do with "birth". Now, I know that labor & delivery are a part of the nursing program. But, when my friend recently had a baby (my friends know my feelings about babies & pregnant women & that I will see them in about a year) I actually went to the hospital to see her. I literally ran passed the area where you see the infants and went to her room. I was there less than 5 minutes & turned white. Said my goodbyes, had this ringing in my ears & passed out in the hallway outside her room.

Yeah, I have issues:eek: I know that. But when I was talking to my sister-in-laws friend who is an RN, she said I shouldn't become a nurse. What does that have to do w/me being a nurse? I will make a great nurse. I would like to work w/ the elderly, whose children have forgotten. With no kids, there will not be time off of work due to them being sick, school, daycare ect. Is she right? I know that that part of nursing school is going to be a VERY BIG challenge & somehow I am going to have to deal w/ that when the time comes.

Thanks for reading

Jenn

Go for it !!!!! Like everyone in the above post has said there are different aspect of nursing that appeal to us.

I loved Peds but I hated Psych. I went through the rotation, did okay, but I definately knew that I never wanted to become a Psych nurse. For me pediatrics was the way to go.

Just go to your instructor and talk about your fears. I did that with my Psych instructor and he did a wonderful job helping me through the rotation and making it through.

Specializes in Nephrology, Cardiology, ER, ICU.

Count me as one who couldn't stand PYSCH - absolutely hated it. So, where do I work now (many years later) - level one trauma center in a state where our glorious former governor closed most of the inpt pysch facilities. YIKES!!!

Hey JustJenn,

I'm an RN (been a nurse for 10 years) and I have never liked kids, and plan to never have any, as well.

I was kind of freaked about my L&D and newborn nursery clinicals, but turns out that I really enjoyed myself there. Also, seeing what the child-birth experience is like served to confirm my decision to be "child-free."

Best of luck to you. Who knows, you may end up enjoying your clinicals too!:)

Specializes in Obstetrics, M/S, Psych.

I have never liked taking care of "sick" people but am great as an OB or psych nurse. We all have our niche and yours is just not OB/Peds!

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