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Hi everyone! I'm Carolina, a 20 yr old female living in San Diego, CA, attending San Diego City College, aspiring to be a future nurse and a nurse practitioner at some point. I have some concerns that hopefully some nurses who have been or are in nursing school can help me with.
So I always wanted to be a doctor, I love medicine and helping people, I have always been the type to care for my family and others when they are sick, prepare warm food, give them over-the-counter meds, etc. And I love it.
However I do think it is a long time in school and much sacrifice to become a doctor, before I even thought of being a nurse I looked for some satisfaction in Bio and Chem, which is currently my major and I am still doing the prerequisites which are the same for nursing school, so all in all I am still on the right path and there is no need to change everything I am doing whatsoever.
But I inquired on San Diego City College School of Nursing, and turns out you apply a year before attending nursing school, and applications are only in the Fall. September to November 1st, so recent applications have just closed and are NOT accepting anymore, which wouldn't have mattered because I still need to finish my generals.
So that would mean I have about:
2 yrs of Pre-reqs
2 yrs of Nursing school
+ Transfer to SDSU to complete my BSN, by then I am a RN with an A.A., hopefully I can begin working by now
And finally, 2 yrs at SDSU to complete my BSN.
So, I am 20 yrs old, I feel like I have lost so much time since I lost a year of school due to personal family issues. I just don't want to be bothering my parents at home much longer, I feel like they'll be thinking, "When is she gonna leave?" I don't know if parents actually think this or not, but that is what is on my mind.
I'm sorry for the long rant, I just feel crushed because this is really what I want to do and my dreams are slowly disappearing in front of me. Both of my parents are caregivers, I also feel they will be disappointing I didn't pursue something else b/c they always tell me how hard taking care of patients is, and they probably wanted me to work in something where I didn't have to take care of people like they do.
Can someone please share some advice or personal stories?
Sincerely,
Carolina