Need a more positive outlook - help!

[Hope.A, BSN, RN]

Hi Everybody,

I'm looking for some affirmation about the "environment" of being a nurse. I've always been a very low-drama, easy-going, easy to get along with person, and the more I read and hear about the nursing profession, I'm afraid there is just a huge amount of drama and catty-ness happening in the workplace. Don't get me wrong, I can handle a high-stress environment when needed, but I also feel like your coworkers should be there to support you and run the race alongside you. I have always thought of nurses as being the sweetest, kindest individuals, but from the stories I am hearing (mostly on this site!), I'm starting to wonder if they're not just as often the mean, dramatic, back-stabbing coworkers that ruin your day and make you hate your job.

I hope I'm not overreacting here. Could somebody tell some good stories about your job? I'm only in my prerequisite nursing classes, applying this fall and winter for programs that begin next year. I don't want to continue down this path if I'm only going to realize that my preconceptions about nursing are all wrong and that I'm going to hate my future career. I want to help people and make a difference (however small) in their lives, not worry about what so-and-so is saying behind my back or whether whats-her-name is going to yell at me for something insignificant.

So bring on the stories that will hopefully re-affirm my new career choice as a nurse!

Do you love it or hate it? Are you glad you chose nursing? Be honest.

[Coriander, BSN, RN]

Hi! I'm also pre-nursing.

If you check out the General tab, especially under Nursing humor, there are some great stories there. When I have rough days in class, I often go over there and read some stories which helps me to continue.

All the best! :)

[nohika]

One thing always to remember is that a lot of nurses come here to rant about the bad parts of the day - therefore, you'll see a lot more of the bad then the good. I'm certain you'll be able to find encouraging stories here as well! Good luck! (I'm pre-nursing too!)