Most RN's first borns?

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Hi everybody,

I have a question and PLEASE dont anybody blast me for typecasting, this was not MY statement, it was a LCSW I was friends with. She claims that a huge % of nurses are first born females of alcoholic fathers. Something to do with the fact that as the first born in dysfunction family of origin you are a caregiver from the get-go. Now my father was not an alcoholic, but I am a first born. I was wondering how many of us are first-borns. (Also, she said this to me a long time ago, and I have lost touch with her, so I cannot ask her where the heck she got her information was) I was just starting school at the time and didnt really fight with her about it, just kind of gave her one of the Hmmm, thats an interesting opinion.... answers. Also, she meant it as a compliment, that we take a difficult beginning and build on our strengths and turn them into a career.

So, how many first borns are out there?

KristyBRN

Specializes in Med/surg, ER/ED,rehab ,nursing home.

I am the oldest of two. Not a very warm, or comforting family. No alchol, or other drug vice. Just not a heart among them.

2nd born of 5; family care-giver. No ETOH with either parent. Both parents killed by drunk driver when I was 17.

lst born , dysfunctional family, but no etoh.

lst born, dysfuntional family...no etoh

lst born, dysfunctional family...no etoh:monkeydance:

Only child, father & mother not alcoholic or dysfuncational, but grandparents were!

I am first born, but my father is not into etoh.

Hi everybody,

I have a question and PLEASE dont anybody blast me for typecasting, this was not MY statement, it was a LCSW I was friends with. She claims that a huge % of nurses are first born females of alcoholic fathers. Something to do with the fact that as the first born in dysfunction family of origin you are a caregiver from the get-go. Now my father was not an alcoholic, but I am a first born. I was wondering how many of us are first-borns. (Also, she said this to me a long time ago, and I have lost touch with her, so I cannot ask her where the heck she got her information was) I was just starting school at the time and didnt really fight with her about it, just kind of gave her one of the Hmmm, thats an interesting opinion.... answers. Also, she meant it as a compliment, that we take a difficult beginning and build on our strengths and turn them into a career.

So, how many first borns are out there?

KristyBRN

Specializes in vent unit, long term care.

yes, i am a firstborn, and yes, i too had an alcoholic father.

Ok, I'm first born: still waiting to be that RN

My father was not ETOH abuser. Verbally abussive maybe (but many were then). He is the only one that does recognize an LPN as a nurse. Unlike so many other people who say we are "not real nurses". I guess he was thrilled I was the only one that not only graduated from HS but also from college.I was the first in our family.

Pegasus:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Specializes in disability.

Heck yes I am 1st born & my natural father died a alcoholic Does this fit the criteria

Specializes in LTC, Agency, HHC.

I am the firstborn of twins, my mom and dad has hx of alcoholism, my dad especially, but I'm not an RN yet, I am on the waiting list to start.

First born daughter of alcoholic mother & father

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