Just in case I did this wrong the first time (I'm sure I did).
The poster you know as MedicalZebra passed away Monday January 30 as a result of complications after a seemingly successful Mitral Valve replacement.
The cardiac surgeon was truly perplexed at the degree and speed of the problem which caused low BP that was never able to be raised high enough to correct. She was not getting blood to her extremities which may suggest a clot form somewhere. After Dialysis Satuday it was a battle to keep her pressure up. She was moved back into CICU where her body eventually failed to recover. I don't know if I'll ever find out what truly happened, but, I thought I should let you know. This forum helped to educate and inform MedicalZebra. And I thank you on her behalf for being there. She was my fiance' and I know you help her allot.
Specializes in RETIRED Cath Lab/Cardiology/Radiology.
What a beautiful eulogy. It says a lot about you both. May her love for life, in all its shades and turnings of color, live on in you and in those she loved.
Please take your time to grieve, no matter how long it takes. You may not be "better" in three or six or even twelve months. The pain doesn't really go away, it just . . . changes. Attending a grief support group or seeing a professional privately may help you weather this. I kind of hope you post again, to let us know how you're doing.
I too am so incredibly sorry... I was looking back through her posts and saw one about a near-death experience she had... she stated that she was incredibly comfortable, on an armchair of clouds... I hope that is a comfort. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now.
foxfarm
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Rick, What a tragedy. I am new to this site--i send you love and peace--i am so very sorry.
Beth