The other thread about what to tell patients about diagnostic tests got me thinking.
I remember when a patient of mine had a biopsy done on some masses in the abdomen. For two days I watched for pathology to come back so we could get the MD in to talk to them about the diagnosis. On the second day they decided to discharge the patient to follow up with an oncologist for results. A few hours before the patient left I found the results and it was non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma. (They knew there was something but were hoping it wasn't this.) My heart was so heavy but I knew it wasn't my place to say anything. The patient was very stressed before they left and all I could do was simply hug them and tell them "one day at a time".
Do you have any experiences where you knew something about a patient but could not tell them?
Tait