I'm losing hope....

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Hi, I apologize for lengthy post, but I'm at my breaking point and need advice. I'm in my third junior year at my local community college as a pre-nursing student. I finished all my nursing pre-reqs on December 2016. A little bit about my grades: My GPA is 3.50 but with the classes that I'm taking this semester, it will bump up close to 3.6. Unfortunately, I have a C in anatomy, B+ in physiology, and B in microbiology. I took anatomy in my first year of college and I didn't realize how devastating that C would be when I transfer. I applied for BSN program at the private school for Spring 2017 and I was rejected. I also missed the deadline for state schools for Fall 2017 semester, and I applied again to the same private school for Fall 2017, and unfortunately, I was rejected yet again. I called the school and they said nursing department isn't going to send out letters until April 1st but I got mine like 3 days ago...I have a feeling they didn't even look over my physiology grade which I completed last semester and my essay after they knew I was rejected the semester ago...

I'm running out of options, I feel like. My parents have been pressuring me to transfer out and my friends with different majors already transferred out to UCs and CSUs and I feel like I'm stuck at the community college. With the uncertainty of when I will be accepted, I don't think I'd want to wait forever until I get in. I feel like that would be so much time wasted.

Meanwhile, I set up an appointment with the advisor from the private college to see what I need to work on and if I need to retake anatomy. I do plan to reapply for Spring 2018. I'm also considering to take business classes while I wait for my hopeful acceptance letter, and if I don't get accepted for Spring 2018, I think I'm just going to transfer out for business although my parents are against it. I talked with them last night and they expressed their major disappointment in me. They said they feel like the past 3 years of me taking nursing pre-reqs would be a waste of time if I change my major to business at the last minute. However, if I start taking business classes this summer, I would be finished by Spring 2018, in time to transfer out for Fall 2018. I thought about LVN-BSN or CNA-BSN bridge programs, but my parents are not fond of either ideas citing that LVN/CNA is not something that I should even consider when I'm still young and can try for BSN.

At this point, I have too many thoughts and extremely overwhelmed. I don't know what steps to take or what choices are the right ones. I would really use advices from those who have been in similar situations as mine OR even any advices to help me out. Thank you in advance!

Edit: I also want to add that I'm almost at 100 units. I took too many classes that I didn't need but I thought would need. Those classes brought down my GPA a lot last year, and I had 3.76 GPA. If I decide to go for business, would 100+ units would be considered and be a factor when deciding acceptance/rejection?

I can see more clearly now you aren't just worried about getting into nursing school, you're not sure if you even want to do this. Saying business, the career you want is only second to nursing because your parents want you to do that is going to make your life miserable. Please think about this, it's your life not your parents and you'll have to express this to them. I don't know and I'm not sure if you even know how much you "want" to be a nurse but it sounds like you're trying to settle and not pursue what you want. This career is too difficult to try to pursue without true motivation.

im sorry if I was rough but you could be wasting even more money and time doing something you will regret!

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If you want to be a nurse, retake some classes and/or apply to as many schools as you can. If you don't want to be a nurse why are you wasting time & money? I get wanting to make the parents happy, but it's your life, they won't live it, so you have to do what makes you happy.

Another question to ask yourself is what exactly would you do with your business degree? Many, many jobs want people with business degrees, but keep in mind it is a somewhat generic degree and the market is flooded with people with generic degrees right now, to include me. Just have a flexible plan of action whatever direction you decide to go. Good luck.

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