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it is difficult to say because without all the experiences you have had, you would not be ther person you are. for myself, i would not wait for a tractor trailor to hit me and all that followed that experience. i would not have married my husband, then i would not be a statistic. i would have gone right from high school, via rotc, into the air force and gone to the university of michigan. i would have been an officer in the service. i would do trauma and not have the bad memories and tears i shed now when i look at one of my patients in our level 1.the air force would pay for me to become a critical care arnp and i would be active duty now.
the other side of that coin is, without the lessons my wreck taught me, i would not be the nurse, the researcher, the woman i am now.i have learned how precious life is. i relish in the sunshine like a person who has been in prison for years. yes, i have had alot of pain in my life, lost babies, lost memories that have not come back, nightmare relationships, and faced death more times than i care to remember, but, all of that...makes me who i am. and, god gave me choices and challenges because he/she knew that i would come through it and be an example to others. so, all in all, i have my masters, i have my bsn, i am a nurse, maybe not an arnp, but, it is never too late. :heartbeat
i couldnt have said it better Bumblebee, now lets mentor our youths and children and hope they dont have the say the famous quote "if i could turn back the hands of time"
I totally agree. & that is what i will instill in my daughter- that education is very important- and to research something that she will love.
God willing I will guide her to volunteer in many different type of places before entering college & perhaps there she will find something she will love & years down the line she will be proud of herself.
I attended a magnet high school and I graduated from high school with my LPN degree. So, if I could go back in time, I would have strongly considered attended a community college at age 17 (pre-reqs were all complete dual enrolled with FAU) and completed the LPN-RN program in 18 months. I would have been an RN by 19.
However, my 10 years of life experiences as a social worker, teacher, and career student are priceless.
it took me a while to figure out what I wanted to be when I grew up (ok so a little longer but 28 isn't all that grown lol) I don't think I'd change a thing, I married young and we had 3 kids right away and pretty close in age, I was lucky to be able to be a SAHM untill our youngest was 2, I started the pre-req's when she was in 1st grade, now she's entering 4th (have one entering 5th and oldest into 7th *ack* a hr high kiddo)and I graduate in 1 week, it's worked out quite well
labrador4122, RN
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what would you have done differently in your career to become an rn soon after high school?
i will go first.
first, i would like to say that i never saw myself in nursing. nursing at the time for me was not in my vocabulary. i wanted to go to college to explore new things and learn about myself. so i took a bunch of psychology classes, art history, business------ all leading to nowhere. little did i know that a few years down the line i would be an rn and loving it.
if i could go back in time i...
i know it's wishful thinking- but i wish i would of been more serious about school, and just had picked nursing from the beginning.
but everyone has a different paths in life, at age 18 i was immature- and had this new found freedom that i didn't have when i was in hs- i didn't have any guidance that i needed at that time in my life.
but someone something clicked up there at at 22 i decided to get serious about school- and i started all over again- started the pre-reqs for nursing- kept applying until eventually i started and finished school.
so i am happy for myself about that.
only if i would go back in time.......:typing