I swear my kids are the nosiest...

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The students, I mean. My own kids know better by now. But does anyone else have trouble protecting student's privacy because of other students? I'm thinking specifically of my diabetic. When I am having him check his blood glucose and then giving insulin (not very independent yet), I have trouble keeping other students from butting in and asking questions. My office is very wide open and I did ask the student if he would prefer I give his insulin in my curtained area, but he said it's ok.

So he stands next to my desk and we chat and discuss his lunch/snack and decide together how much insulin he needs (he's learning how to dose himself), but other students often try to stand next to him while I give insulin and I have to ask them to step away. Sometimes they ask me why he needs a shot and my standard reply is "to keep him healthy". He doesn't usually answer their questions so I take it he's not comfortable disclosing his health information.

In other words, I take my cues from him and do everything to protect his privacy, but I wonder if it's just my students at my school or if I could be doing more to protect this kid.

As an aside, once the student and I told another student that it's Captain America serum, and to check back with the student later to see if he had huge muscles yet...he thought this was a great prank to pull and laughs about it still. :laugh:

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Best answer came from my 9 YO student last year who simply told the other students in the room "I have diabetes, my body doesn't make something yours does. That's all". Kids were satisfied and I was proud of her.

I think as kiddos, they're naturally curious, especially when the "patient student" doesn't LOOK any different. Also, they haven't exactly developed that "filter" so EVERYTHING gets asked, even if it doesn't involve them. I usually respond to any questions with "We're just making sure *so-in-so* is feeling top notch!" which usually suffices for my younger kiddos. I do have to remind them, all grades, everyday that if someone is in my office speaking to me, they need to sit in the chairs across from my door until I'm done. I am, however, more patient with my nosey kiddos than I am with my nosey teachers. My office is SUPER TINY so when I have kiddos waiting out a stomach ache or are waiting for parents to come pick them up, they have to wait in the main waiting area of the office. It never fails, I ALWAYS have multiple teachers come through and (loudly) ask "Awww, *so-in-so* are you sick or are you in trouble?!" the students then have to (and I say "have to" because its rude not to answer your teacher, right?) say WHY they're in the office waiting so then everyone who is also in there now knows their issues. Ugh. I wish I had a bigger office where their privacy was more guarded from nosey teachers (and the curious kiddos).

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I especially enjoy when my special needs student who I see 5 times a day for diabetes (yes, you read that right FIVE times a day!) tries to give medical advice to other students when he is in my office.

I am assessing a student for non-emergent back pain and am in the process of discussing treatment options with student.

Special needs student (who is in my office checking his blood sugar): Well, I think you should try a back brace that has copper in it....

Me: ....

Special needs student: Oh. I'm doing it again, aren't I? I'll just keep my mouth shut then.

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