I don't feel like a real nurse

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Been an RN for 7 years. Still working the same job I started as a new grad (MS/PCU). During that time I've watched everyone I went to school with change jobs at least once, get their Masters, etc. I've watched MANY, MANY new grad RN's start on my floor only to move on to bigger and better as soon as they could. Meanwhile I've done nothing and I almost feel embarrassed by this. I feel like I'm not learning and growing and advancing in my profession. I watch other nurses, even newer ones, and they all seem to go around with such confidence. I feel they all know so much more than me. At this point I feel like I've forgot more than I know and my skills are somehow diminishing. I want to get a new job but I'm too intimidated to even apply. I feel I'm qualified for nothing and not good enough. I feel like my skills and knowledge aren't where they should be. I feel I'm successful at my current job because I've been there so long but wouldn't be successful elsewhere...like I'm almost 'faking it'. Need some serious feedback/advice.

I worked my first job for 9 years, so I can totally relate. After about 7 years I started to feel “stuck in a rut”. It’s completely normal to want to tackle new challenges! And doing so helps us grow!

I would say to really do some soul searching to determine if you love your actual job but are just bored and frustrated at doing the same thing so long. If so, look for ways to advance within that job. Charge nurse, leadership committees, specialty certification, etc. This really helped me feel like I was growing without changing jobs.

However if you don’t really love the area and job itself, maybe it’s time to try something new? Either way I hope you find something you love!

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