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one of the most important things a nurse does is prioritize. Sometimes, in a hospital situation especially, that means RE-prioritizing over and over. I recommend you delegate whatever can be done by someone else (spouse, friend, family). Decide what really HAS to be done. Probably will not include keeping all beds made at all times. Make "dates" with those you love so you can schedule study time. Quit trying to be everything to everyone. Remind loved ones that you need their support at this time. People like to help if they are being appreciated. Remember to relax now and then.
There are lots of us with you. I don't think nursing school is nursing school if someone hasn't broken down and cried at some point (me incl). You will make it through and when your done your family and friends will still be there waiting patiently. I'm lucky enough one of my best friends is same year as me, so one of us is usually calling the other crying or venting or freaking out and stressed. It's rough, I gave up on my house being perfect throughout the week (not happening), but I did make a chore board for my kids as more of a reminder that, hey mom can't do everything and it helps. My bf has felt the wrath of my stress, lol poor guy, but they understand. I thought my friend was going to quit this week because she was stressed out about all the same things you said, but I told her she needs a vaca, march break is in a week and then 8 weeks of school and then we're off and then we only have 1 yr left. It's really not that long when you look big picture and the outcome from it out ways it all. You can do it, we all can :)
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Buried in school, work, kids, housework, homework, etc...UGHHHHHHHHH!!!