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I have accepted a position on night shift at a hospital pending my state boards. So for those of you who work nights, how do toy manage life? For example, the place I will be working is a 50 minute drive away. My wife is requesting a transfer with her job but cannot be moved until next fall. I'm just concerned about falling asleep at the wheel driving back home.
I read some tips and someone said spend money for a motel, but I can't justify paying 1,000$ a month for a hotel stay - and check in is not until 3 pm (average cost is 75$/night + 16% tax)
Also, how do you manage any social life...spending time with family and friends?
You have got to protect your sleep with a commute like that. I live five minutes from my full time job but an hour from my PRN, and there have been a couple of days where I have almost fallen asleep on the way home from my PRN job - usually days I had class that morning, didn't get home until 1200 or so, and got four hours or less of sleep before I had to wake up to go to work. You need more than four hours of sleep to handle a commute like that. I generally don't have problems if I'm well rested, but sometimes being well rested is not an option.
If I feel like I am about to run off the road, I call somebody. People can frown all they want about people who talk on the phone while driving, but I am fully awake when I'm talking on the phone.
Eating can help, too, as a PP said. I personally like spicy/sour things. Red hots, fireballs, warheads... something that brings a real shock to my mouth is pretty good at making me feel more awake.
I worked just over an hour away for nearly a year. There were days when I struggled to stay awake on the long drive home, but most of the time it was fine. Just take a good nap the first day and go straight to bed each day until you have a day off. I agree with a pp about not sleeping all day on your first day off. I tend to get my days/nights mixed up when I do that. The good thing is that the 12 hour shifts can allow you to schedule several days off in a row so you can have a mini vacation before you have to go back to work.
I'm not a nurse but my friend is and this is what she does. She works 7p-7a.
Doesn't immediately go to sleep when she gets in the house (eats breakfast first).
Drinks coffee on the way to work and again at 2a.
Dinner at 5p.
Avoids working 3 nights in a row.
Packs meal and 2 healthy snacks
Works out on days off
Sample schedule M/Tu/F
On Sun, she's up all day. Bedtime @ 2am (Mo). Alarm @ 9a. Nap from 1p-5p
Tues - sleep all day (10a-5p)
Wed - Sleep until 1p. Remains awake until it's time for bed (i.e. 10p)
Thur - Up all day. Bedtime @ 2am (F). Alarm @ 9a. Nap from 1p-5p
Sat - Repeat Wednesday
I'm back on nights after 20 years. I didn't do so well on nights in my 20s. Doing better in my 40s. I don't have a long commute tho, and my mind isn't telling myself all the time that nights suck because they're great if you look at the positives.
I like my shifts grouped together. Others like theirs spread out. You'll have to experiment to see what works best. Being very routine oriented works best for me. I stop caffeine by 3am and nothing better get between me and my bed when I get home. I have an ac running in my bedroom, a loud hepa filter for white noise, and blackout blinds. I take Tylenol because my body hurts after a 12, valerian root tincture and essential oils to relax and I have water at my bedside. I sleep 9-5p, get up repeat. I nap before my first shift. There's no life outside work and sleep with 12s. But there are 4 days off....so that's life time. :)
My first nocturnal job in my 20s I had a 1hr commute at the end. It was hard. If I had a long drive now I'd use my minivan to my benefit. It has the stowe'n'go seats so I'd put them down and put a blow up bed in there with a sleeping bag. Pull over for a nap in the shade if I was too tired. I know people that have crashed on that drive. I fell asleep once and that was scary as crap. Don't risk it.
Snacking on celery or carrots would work. I love the idea of holding something cold. Listening to podcasts is great. I love Radiolab. I bet it'd be a great time to call mom
I'm back on nights after 20 years. I didn't do so well on nights in my 20s. Doing better in my 40s. I don't have a long commute tho, and my mind isn't telling myself all the time that nights suck because they're great if you look at the positives.I like my shifts grouped together. Others like theirs spread out. You'll have to experiment to see what works best. Being very routine oriented works best for me. I stop caffeine by 3am and nothing better get between me and my bed when I get home. I have an ac running in my bedroom, a loud hepa filter for white noise, and blackout blinds. I take Tylenol because my body hurts after a 12, valerian root tincture and essential oils to relax and I have water at my bedside. I sleep 9-5p, get up repeat. I nap before my first shift. There's no life outside work and sleep with 12s. But there are 4 days off....so that's life time. :)
My first nocturnal job in my 20s I had a 1hr commute at the end. It was hard. If I had a long drive now I'd use my minivan to my benefit. It has the stowe'n'go seats so I'd put them down and put a blow up bed in there with a sleeping bag. Pull over for a nap in the shade if I was too tired. I know people that have crashed on that drive. I fell asleep once and that was scary as crap. Don't risk it.
Snacking on celery or carrots would work. I love the idea of holding something cold. Listening to podcasts is great. I love Radiolab. I bet it'd be a great time to call mom
Not my mom Lol.
I teased my wife about investing in an RV....like one from Meet the Fockers
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I've worked nights for about 4 years and I can say that, for me, I'm just now starting to get used to it. I also used to have a 45 minute drive to work and it was pretty horrible. I used to listen to the comedy station on Pandora to keep me laughing and awake. I also didn't doubt myself--if I thought I was going to fall asleep behind the wheel, I would pull over in a parking lot and sleep for a little bit. Better safe than sorry. I think you'll find what works best for you once you start working. I also don't usually drink coffee--but I do on nightshift!
Also--now that it's nice out and summer is here, I think it's easier to participate in things during the day. If I worked the night before but I was off the next day, I sleep until like 11 or 1 at the latest and then get up and go do things. Then I can sleep that night.
Starting out, try to work most of your days in a row. Work a day, off a day is so hard especially on nightshift. It'll take so much longer to get a routine down.
Good luck! Night shift is great! I love it and don't see myself working anything else!