My son is missing

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My 17 year old son has been missing since last night. We've had trouble with him in the past year with drinking and marijuana, and he's been in counseling. But the past few months he's been clean. We know this because we have him randomly tested. His grades improved, his personality improved.

Last night he got drunk with a friend and they vandalized a car. He called us this morning on his cell phone, and said he was lost in some woods, then the battery went dead. I know he's terrified of the trouble he's going to be in.

I'm not excusing his behavior. He will have to pay the consequences when he comes home. But he does have a suspected anxiety disorder and when something goes wrong, he panics.

The police went looking for him, my husband is looking for him, our friends are looking for him. I'm waiting by the phone. After two hours, the police called off their search saying that if he knows they're looking it will chase him away even more. How in the heck is he supposed to know they aren't looking for him??????

It's cold and raining out and he's only wearing a t-shirt and jeans. I only hope he finds shelter.

I'm not even sure why I posted this here. I just know that in the past you've all given your prayers and best wishes to others.

I have never been so lost or so scared in my life.

Oh my.... BUG HUGS TO YOU!!

I too a, very sorry to hear of you situation and hope he is safe, sheltered and on his way home!!!

All the best

My best wishes

Rachel

Oh my.... BUG HUGS TO YOU!!

I too a, very sorry to hear of you situation and hope he is safe, sheltered and on his way home!!!

All the best

My best wishes

Rachel

Oh kat... I'm praying for you & your son right now... I'm praying God will camp angels around your son... and put a hedge of protection around him and keep him safe, sound & warm. I pray you receive peace, comfort and understanding....

God's Blessings to you,

Shelley

Oh kat... I'm praying for you & your son right now... I'm praying God will camp angels around your son... and put a hedge of protection around him and keep him safe, sound & warm. I pray you receive peace, comfort and understanding....

God's Blessings to you,

Shelley

Specializes in midwifery, ophthalmics, general practice.

this is every mums nightmare. I am thinking of you- hope he comes home soon

Karen

Specializes in midwifery, ophthalmics, general practice.

this is every mums nightmare. I am thinking of you- hope he comes home soon

Karen

Specializes in Hospice, Critical Care.

Please, please let us know and don't apologize! We are here for you.

I'm praying for you and your son--that he is returned to you soon and for protection while he is wandering and that the peace of God helps him overcome his anxiety. Praying for peace and comfort for you too.

Specializes in Hospice, Critical Care.

Please, please let us know and don't apologize! We are here for you.

I'm praying for you and your son--that he is returned to you soon and for protection while he is wandering and that the peace of God helps him overcome his anxiety. Praying for peace and comfort for you too.

Bless your heart! How awful for you! You son is probably hiding at a friend's house, afraid to "face the music" at home. I hope that he comes home very soon--I'll be thinking about you and your family. Please keep us posted.

Bless your heart! How awful for you! You son is probably hiding at a friend's house, afraid to "face the music" at home. I hope that he comes home very soon--I'll be thinking about you and your family. Please keep us posted.

Specializes in Critical Care.

{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}, what you are experiencing in every mothers worst nightmare, I hope and pray for your sons safe return. At least he knows enough to call you so you know he is trying to come home too, don't worry he will find a way.

Specializes in Critical Care.

{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}, what you are experiencing in every mothers worst nightmare, I hope and pray for your sons safe return. At least he knows enough to call you so you know he is trying to come home too, don't worry he will find a way.

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