Am I *Too* nice?

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Hello all,its me again with another question about nursing home nursing.:)

I have been at odds with the day shift nurse for 3 days now,because she insists on making one of the residents walk,who fell on the 7th.Her hip/left thigh is very painful,getting steadily worse.She had portable xrays done which were negative on the 8th.

Last night,she could barely walk,and we ended up getting her a bedpan and using it.I was going to let her stay in bed this morning,just because it is so painful for her,and I tink she may have a fracture of her femur,or something that didnt show.Just so ya know,I did call her doc when she wasnt able to bear weight,he ordered another xray,of her femur.Shes already on Darvocet for the pain,and Tylenol.There is no deformity,shortening,rotation of the leg,good pulses....

.The lady is in her late 60's and has Parkinsons also.Her husband and she share a room,the husband has Alzheimers.She is worried about him,as she takes care of him,makes sure he gets dressed right,helps him do things around the room,etc...

Anyway,the day shift nurse came in and had a fit because she was still in bed.I explained top her that the lady was in tears and could hardly bear weight on the leg,so I had said she could stay in bed.She said she needs to walk on the leg.I said,she cant!She said,why.I said because it is too painful for her.She insisted the lady is just trying to get sympathy,and that theres nothing wrong with her leg,except a bruise.I said,well,when I got her up to the bathroom,she was in tears,and couldnt bear weight on it.She then asked me what we were doing for her leg.I said,Darvocet,and I called her Dr and got an order for another xray.She asked why.I said,because of the increased pain and decreased ability to bear weight,she may have a fracture that didnt show up the other day.She said,well,maybe,but she needs to walk.I still think theres notthing wrong.I said,well,if you want her out of bed,you go tell her,because Im not going to.She's in pain.

So,she did.My question is...am I being too nice thinking this lady deserves to lie in bed,not putting weight on her leg,yes,she does have some history of being anxious and a bit over dramatic at times.But,Im sorry,she was crying when she walked on her leg.I cannot bring myself to force someone to walk when theyre in taht much pain.

This has happened with other residents recently,theyve had a respiratory virus,and are weak,but the day shift insists on getting them up and going to the dining room for meals.They tell me these people need to not lie in bed and get down before their time.I feel it is cruel,and a bit lazy,perhaps,to make them go to meals,when they can just barely sit up.They dont do room trays often at this nursing home.Not sure why.

Am I just bein' a big ol softie???

Christine

sorry so long

Specializes in Geriatrics, LTC.

My daughter has osgood-schlatters disease in her right knee, she fell and the knee swelled up and was VERY painful, xrays should nothing. The knee pain was blamed on the disease. Sometime later the child was still in pain, MRI's were obtained and a break in the femur was discovered, unfortunately too late. She now wears a knee brace.

My point is that breaks don't show always on an xray, severe pain is the first key to something is still wrong. I think you took all the right steps and did all the right things. One day in bed until tests are done will not hurt the lady, better safe then sorry.

In the elderly bruises and breaks tend to not show until a day or so after the incident.

Originally posted by spineCNOR

No Crispix, you are not being just a softie--this lady needs to be evaluated by an orthopedic surgeon. She also needs a better quality X-ray than a portable, read by a radiologist. Forcing this lady to walk when she feels she can't put weight on her leg, WHEN SHE HAS NOT HAD A PROPER MEDICAL EVALUATION, seems cruel to me. You are right to pursue this issue to help this poor lady, and to determine if she needs further treatment.

My thoughts EXACTLY...you have no idea how many negative hips on bedside xrays I have sent for repair of a fx...I think and ER eval is in order, personlly...does this lady have family to get involved? Is she with it enough to state (with some off to the side hints) that she wants to go to the hospital? All she has to do is say she wants to go to the ER and she has to be sent-she has the right, going into a nursing home does not mean you don't get to choose for your self...also, if this lady does not want to get OOB it is also her right and it is ABUSE (and illegal) if she is forced.

GET AN ORDER FOR BEDREST IMMEDIATELY!

END OF PROBLEM, END OF DISCUSSION WITH THIS IDIOT NURSE WHO OUGHT TO BE HUNG UP BY HER THUMBS !!!!

Specializes in Oncology/Haemetology/HIV.

As an oncology nurse, the pain could be from any number of things - that would not show up in a routine xray. The patient needs a thorough evaluation by an internist and/or orthopod stat.

Seen alot of multiple myelomas DX'd this way as well as few other things (not so good)

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