Hello,
I am in my second year in a diploma (soon-to-be degree) program based at a local hospital. The two-year program is very reputable, but very challenging. I am 36, a man, married with two kids and working part-time at a methadone clinic. My goal is to work with drug addicts and/or acute psychiatric patients upon discharge.
Right now, I'm in a very intense med-surg course (both for classrooms and clinicals). I didn't do well on the first test, so now I have to study like crazy. My clinical professor is very thorough and meticulous and I'm grateful for that -- although it makes for a lot of work.
My anger -- and no, it's not just frustration, it's ANGER -- lies at the RNs at the school's parent hospital. Some of them are wonderful, helpful and kind, but others seem to bring all their baggage with them and take it out on YOU. It seems like many will do ANYTHING to throw a student under the bus. In 201, I was written up for having a food stain on my pants (THEY'RE WHITE -- things happen!) and a scraggly beard (it was just growing in -- it couldn't be scraggly). In 203, a nurse actually complained to an instructor that I was ANNOYING her with communication about stuff I was INSTRUCTED to communicate to her. I wasn't breaking any policy or even usual practice. Just being annoying. This same nurse is celebrated with her picture throughout the hospital with a recent special award for treating her patients "like family." Yeah, maybe, but she treats her students like dirt.
Which leads me to today. At the end of my clinical rotation in peds, my instructor said that somebody had reported me referring to a narcotic painkiller with the words "that's the good stuff" in front of a 16-year-old patient. Not only did I not say that -- I would NEVER say that. It's unprofessional and foolish. I do sometimes use the phrase "good stuff" as words of encouragement in my daily conversation, but I would never say it to glamorize a drug. I vehemently denied using that terminology and I think the instructor believed me -- because she said she'd leave it alone. She did mention (as every other instructor has), that I can be very excitable (lifelong ADHD) and can work people up. So what? Most people find that endearing. Maybe these nurses don't.
Anyway, these interactions have left me with a very bitter taste in my mouth. I don't even want to apply at this hospital anymore, despite the advantage they give to graduating students. I feel like I'd tell off these nasty ladies in my first few days. And if I was going to work in a hospital, it would be the ER, psych or peds. But I wonder what/who I am that is so off-putting that someone would just assume the worst about me -- including a misheard "inappropriate" comment that wasn't.
Very frustrated right now. Insights are certainly appreciated.