Frustating shift last night, just venting...

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I had a fairly young patient last night who has metastatic lung ca...mets to bones, liver, adrenals...multiple pathological fractures. I could not manage to get her nausea or pain under control, despite a Fentanyl patch, frequent morphine, zofran, and reglan. She was getting blood, and every freaking time she'd manage to drift off to sleep, I'd have to get vitals on her. She was so sweet, her family was wonderful, and you can tell that they just aren't coping well with her diagnosis. They're doing radiation oncology treatments, apparently palliatively, since the oncologist wrote in his note "consider d/c'ing treatments if unable to achieve significant pain relief from treatments".

The day nurse is supposed to push the docs for better pain and nausea management (we're thinking more Fentanyl and Ativan IV), and ask them about talking to the patient and family about code status. Currently she's a full code, but she's got so many mets in her ribs and spine that I hate to even THINK about doing CPR on her.

Cancer sucks.

If there is one thing that really disgusts me, its family keeping loved ones on full code status when they are terminally ill and not doing good, or very old. I am in home care and my client is in late stage alzheimers and upper 80's, but her daughter has her as a full code. Why does it seem that quantity of life is more important than quality? And instead of keeping loved ones on full code who really should not be, they should think of how the person feels living that way and suffering everyday. I feel so bad for your patient and my client as well, the most unselfish and loving thing to do would be to let there loved ones go when it is the PATIENTS time, not when the family feels like it is his/her time!

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