I found this posted on a wall at work and wanted to share with all y'all:
When I wander don't tell me to come and sit down-Wander with me.
It may be because I am hungry, thirsty, need the toilet, or maybe I just need to stretch my legs.
When I call for my mother(even though I'm ninety!). don't tell me she has died. Reassure me, cuddle me, ask me about her. It may be that I am looking for the security that my mother once gave.
When I shout out, please don't ask me to be quiet--or walk by--I am trying to tell you something but am having difficulty in teling you what.
Be patient...try to find out. I may be in pain.
When I become agitated or appear angry, please don't reach for the drugs first, I am trying to tell you something. It may be too hot--too bright--too noisy, or maybe it's because I am missing my loved ones.
Try to find out first when I don't eat my dinner or drink my tea. It maybe because I've forgotten how to...show me what to do...remind me. It may be that I just need to hold my knife and fork-I may know what to do then.
When I push you away when you are trying to help me--a wash perhaps, or getting dressed, maybe it's because I have forgotten what you have said. Keep telling me what you are doing--over and over and over--Maybe others will think YOU are the one that needs help!
With all my thoughts and maybes, perhaps it will be you who reaches my thoughts, understands my fears and will make me feel safe.
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kdhnursern
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CapeCodMermaid, this is great! I plan to present this to my DON to give to the staff at inservice. Thank you for sharing it!