I have been taking care of a patient in private duty since Feb. '07. She died and the funeral is tomorrow.
I don't believe in funerals. I don't want a funeral for myself when I die and I don't go to funerals now.
The other nurses I worked with taking care of this patient plan to go to the funeral. I have no money to send flowers but I got a sympathy card to give to the family and was going to leave it at the funeral home.
Does this sound appropriate? I know some nurses who have said there comes a time when it is time to end the relationship and when a person dies the nurses need to step out of the picture, but I feel like this was different, since we worked with the patient on such a personal basis.