Ex boyfriend is spreading rumors of drug use about me HELP

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I made a bad choice chose a crazy bf and now he claims hes met with a hospital and will be having a meeting with my school tomorrow,. hes told them I use marijuana which I DONT, help what can I do to stop this and protect my reputation? and what can he do , he said he'll make sure I never become a nurse, what will my school do ? :( Im in my last 3months help please Im really stressing out I know hes serious and will be following through this is not an empty threat I know that much

Specializes in Complex pedi to LTC/SA & now a manager.
what kind of 'protection'? liability insurance or ??? sorry so many questions Im just at a loss about my situation ... and would me talking to my school before him look like an admission of guilt? Wouldnt being surprised by it look better ? And Ive struggled grade wise last quarter and I cant call anyone untill tomorrow myself, its sunday : ([/quote']

See my reply above. ;)

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If you don't use any drugs, the worst thing they could do is give you a drug screening which you'll pass with flying colors. On the other spectrum, this is defamation of character and you can file a lawsuit.

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I am so sorry you are going through this. I find it difficult to believe that a random hospital will talk to a complete stranger about someone using drugs.....I think he is trying to scare you. I would NOT come prepared with a urine for drug screen for they won't use it anyhow even IF they ask. You don't bring your own urine ....they will watch you give a new one to be sure it's your urine.

I would make an appointment with an advisor to talk about what you should do about the person. I feel he is trying to continue to control and abuse you by keeping you frightened. Don't allow him

I would make a police report that he is threatening to hurt you.

I would consult a lawyer about a restraining order.

We cannot give legal advice as per the Terms of Service but I believe consulting a lawyer would be a good idea.

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