how do you deal with disappointment?

[Destiny12]

hey all,

how do you deal with disappointment in life, work, or education etc. how do you know your headed down the right path. I am currently in a healthcare area that I like and I have made plans to further my education in this particular area but then i saw another opportunity in a whole different area and I put my energy towards that new path but things didn't work out so I am continuing in my original area. Should i continue with my original plan. I welcome your thoughts.

[jjjoy, LPN]

Dealing with disappointment is not a strength of mine. Growing up, I learned that if you didn't get it right the first time, you're stuck with the negative consequences forever, it's all your fault if things don't work out because you could've avoided it if you'd just been more diligent, and that being happy & satisfied with what is was just asking for trouble. Altogether it's a pretty hopeless perspective.

I'm actively working on more positive ways of dealing with disappointment. To set and work towards goals and yet not feel like all hope is gone if the plans don't work out. Sometimes, it all seems like just a mind game. Sometimes, that's a depressing thought and sometimes it's a hopeful thought!

I appreciate what people have shared!

[clemoi]

1/2 Faith in yourself

1/4 Courage to discover what you really want

1/8 Love for what you're doing

1/16 Support of those who love you

1/16 Knowing you'll adapt to whatever life leads you through.

Good luck :)

[Destiny12]

Hello everyone,

thanks for all your positive replies. I now look at my disappointment as a blessing. I truly believe that I am where I am for a reason. This particular field will provide the skills needed to open the doors to many great opportunities. Plus I'm going back to school can't wait another great experience. Thanks again everyone have a great holiday.