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So, I am still in orientation, but in 6 short shifts I will be off to the races on my own, or at least that's been the plan. All along I have been doing well on days, and not so great at night. (I am currently rotating until June, and then am supposed to go straight nights). Some of the not greatness may be because me and my preceptor at night have never really clicked. She is not a very emotive person, I have a hard time communicating with her, she gives little feedback good or bad. She's definitely a hoverer, which tends to make me nervous. I have tried to initiate conversations with her about some of this, and ask how I'm doing...no success really.
But a lot of the not greatness is definitely just me. For whatever reason, I cannot seem to transfer my successful day routine to nights. 4 patients during the day, sure! At night? I'm all over the place, have no time for anything, and end up being that nurse that has to stay late to chart because I've been barely not drowning all night ?♀️. Each increase in patient load has made me dread going in to work at night more, but the jump from 4 to 5 is coming, and I know I'm not ready for that.
So, the other night I worked a shift, and I just could not keep up. 4 patient assignment, 3 out of 4 were pretty confused, one of them assaulting us (advanced dementia), and a pretty complex neuro patient. 2 out of 4 without a CNA. Either way, I literally ran around all night, still had to ask for help from my preceptor to do things like hang an antibiotic, or change tube feeds in another room etc. And I left work feeling like a *** nurse. My preceptors only advice was "time management will come with time". Which is probably true, but it needs to come a little faster, LOL. Slept for a few hours, and woke up to a message from our Unit based educator asking me to call her.
Long story short, my night preceptor is not impressed, and thinks I'm not ready to be off orientation, and now the UBE will be observing me on Monday for a few hours to decide what to do with me, since my day preceptor thinks I'm doing great. And they are both right. I'm not doing well at night, and I don't know why I cannot seem to just take what I do during the day, and replicate it at night? What is my problem? I know my migraines have been thru the roof from swapping btwn days and nights, and my ? is tired, but im a 2nd shifter at heart, third shift shouldn't be this hard to adjust to. Any thoughts appreciated ❤